Ofcourse talking about it is the solution, but this is always the case. I think your problem is almost inevitable when people get into a serious relationship like this at such a young age. You have not experienced other people and relationships that might be out there for you, he probably feels the same way. I also think considering you have been together for so long, but are still young that it is not strange that at one point the passion kind of fades away. I don't think that it's worth directly leaving the relationship for though.
Do you have enough time apart from eachother? I realize it's probably difficult because you have children together, but I have experienced that occasionally being apart from eachother in the evening and going out with friends etc. can help rekindling that feeling of longing for eachother.
Just please don't judge your boyfriend just yet, he probably has similar feelings to yours but just expresses them through a lack of sexual interest instead of directly wanting to leave, guys are simple and pretty loyal like that once they are settled.
IIN to wonder between passion vs stability?
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Ofcourse talking about it is the solution, but this is always the case. I think your problem is almost inevitable when people get into a serious relationship like this at such a young age. You have not experienced other people and relationships that might be out there for you, he probably feels the same way. I also think considering you have been together for so long, but are still young that it is not strange that at one point the passion kind of fades away. I don't think that it's worth directly leaving the relationship for though.
Do you have enough time apart from eachother? I realize it's probably difficult because you have children together, but I have experienced that occasionally being apart from eachother in the evening and going out with friends etc. can help rekindling that feeling of longing for eachother.
Just please don't judge your boyfriend just yet, he probably has similar feelings to yours but just expresses them through a lack of sexual interest instead of directly wanting to leave, guys are simple and pretty loyal like that once they are settled.
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he might be thinking "I can have sex anytime she is not going anywhere anyway.." which is basically the same state of mind.