Is it normal to wonder about who would care if you died?

I always think about who would cry or be really upset if I died. I know it's weird, but i'm just so curious! Is that normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Sad to say, I think the first person who would notice would be my employer.

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  • Oh me too. Probably my husband. My kids, doubt it.
    My pets would because I'm the only one who feeds them and hugs them But they would get over it quickly.

    Other than that, no one.

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  • I'm more concerned about if I would cry at other peoples funerals.

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    • why's that

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      • Well because you kinda know who will care if you died. I'm not close to my dads parents and sometimes I wonder if I would cry at their funerals.

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  • A lot of people who have been diagnosed as terminally ill, now have parties to celebrate their lives so that all the people who would be at their funeral can party with them before they die.

    I love this idea.

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  • When I go to bed, before I fall asleep I first thank the lord that I'm still living and hoping I'll wake up. And after that I always think about what people will do when I don't wake up.. So yeah I know what you're talking about.

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  • prob lots of ppl care

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  • Haha Dappled, mine too.

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  • I would hope that my death do not cause too much pain to anybody. It works again building good relationships, I know, but I still very much dislike the idea of my death causing too much grief.

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  • I can't help but wonder as well. That bloke who dumped me because he likes Kate Nash wouldn't give a shizzle. :( but most people I know...probably.

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  • *in* the least

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  • I wonder the same thing all the time. I mean, I think my family of course would be upset, but as for coworkers, friends and acquaintances, I wonder if it would even phase them the least. I also wonder, would they be surprised/shocked? But I guess that really depends on how I would die. I'm sure if I had some sort of disease and they knew I was really sick, they wouldn't be surprised if they found out I died. Even if they didn't care, I'm sure someone would.

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  • I never really thought about it...

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  • We all feel this way.

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