I'm not necessarily going to wait until marriage, it's an option, but I have to be honest with myself-things happen.The check points are building blocks/guides to a possible goal in life.However I am 'trying' to wait until I find someone I'm truly comfortable with.
For example, if I have a fiance who I am 100% sure will not abandon me on the Wedding Day, I'll 125% give in a few days after I say, "Yes".
Also I'm not saying, I'm only allowed to peck my boyfriends on the cheek and hug them while we're dating. God no, wheres the fun in that? I'm fine with getting to feel and stimulate one another, but sex is just...so final. If you have no chemistry with just small foreplay, then away he goes. You can't ever get it back. And personally, I want to have a smile on my face for the rest of my life after my first time.
At least if I hold out I can say, "Danny may not have been my husband, but I wouldn't have changed a thing!"
Besides if I wait and my husband isn't that great in the bed. Well then it's my turn/sacrifice to teach him just how to work it. With practice makes perfect, so why not practice with the perfect guy for me ;)
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I'm not necessarily going to wait until marriage, it's an option, but I have to be honest with myself-things happen.The check points are building blocks/guides to a possible goal in life.However I am 'trying' to wait until I find someone I'm truly comfortable with.
For example, if I have a fiance who I am 100% sure will not abandon me on the Wedding Day, I'll 125% give in a few days after I say, "Yes".
Also I'm not saying, I'm only allowed to peck my boyfriends on the cheek and hug them while we're dating. God no, wheres the fun in that? I'm fine with getting to feel and stimulate one another, but sex is just...so final. If you have no chemistry with just small foreplay, then away he goes. You can't ever get it back. And personally, I want to have a smile on my face for the rest of my life after my first time.
At least if I hold out I can say, "Danny may not have been my husband, but I wouldn't have changed a thing!"
Besides if I wait and my husband isn't that great in the bed. Well then it's my turn/sacrifice to teach him just how to work it. With practice makes perfect, so why not practice with the perfect guy for me ;)