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My sister went to bording school for 4 years since she came back all she has done is been annoying And complacient. The only time she's actually peaceful is when she is sleeping. Is it normal to whisk she would go away?
Very normal. I had 2 older sisters, one of whom I got along extremely well with and spent tons of time with, including sneaking into her room at night for some messing around, and the other, total opposite. When total opposite sister I didn't get along so well with was at college, I had free reign with the other one and we enjoyed it.
Then, whenever college sister would come home for break or something, I hated it..Saw her as an intrusion to OUR fun..Couldn't wait until she left again. When she changed schools and went across the state, it was difficult for me to contain my joy. Remaining sister I did all that stuff with knew, too. Even said to me "Try not to be too sad she's going that far away and I'm here", sarcastically.
Absolutely normal. No one automatically loves or even likes their siblings, and if your sister's been away for four years straight you're practically strangers.
Give it a while. In the meantime, hold your ground, and don't let anyone headtrip you about how you're "supposed" to feel toward her.
Hopefully you'll both grow out of it. Avoid her as much as you can for now.
(and stay in school-- boarding--you need to know how to spell. :-))
Most siblings don't get along, it's sorta how it works till you find out what works for the two of you.
Good luck lol