Well, here's at thing of importance - as I said before: the penis is not the problem, it is a symbol of the problem.
But not just any random symbol!
It is a symbol of the problem because it actually can be used for drawing a metaphorical picture of the problem. That means that we can get some knowledge of the problem be analyzing the symbol.
What do we know from earlier?
1) We found out, that guys like us, who a slightly above average, might feel homeless and like we doesn't belong anywhere, because we are neither medium or large.
2) Then we found out, that we are forced to compete, but can't and doesn't even want to.
3) Further more we saw the aspect of control. In our position everything is uncertain. Another guy could have a bigger or a smaller. There's no way of knowing. Only doubt and to many possibilities. But … if we had a penis, that was barely average or even quite small, we could almost be sure, that the other guy had a bigger one. By knowing that for a fact, we would be in control.
4) Last but not least we found out, that our penis might not reflect our personality. Even though we have border-penises that are not definite big, they are to close to big, for someone who doesn't feel like a big-penis-person.
That should tell us a bit about the problem.
About 1): Maybe in other aspects of life we feel like we doesn't belong. We might think we are different in some way.
About 2): Maybe in our daily life there are expectations and claims we feel unable to live up to, meet and fulfill.
About 3): Maybe there are some difficult uncertainties in our lives. Or maybe too many situations we feel unable to control.
About 4): Maybe we have difficulties about showing other people how we really are. Or maybe we feel misjudged by other people.
There are some similarities in those things. Perhaps we have often been misunderstood? Perhaps we think the world is chaotic, feels a little lost in it and longing for some kind of order/system?
Please be aware, that I said "maybe" and "perhaps" about all those things. It could be like that. Or it could be in another way.
But at least it should demonstrate, that there actually ARE clues in the symbol about the nature of the problem. I am just not sure I read the clues right or even managed to found out what the clues are. But I do not doubt, that there ARE clues, and that they actually CAN reveal the true nature of the problem.
So the solution?
That's simple: Finding out what the real problem is and what to do about it!
Off course - that goes for myself as well. We can both sit for the rest of our lives and dream about having this nice little penis and try to masturbate the fear out of the body, every time we are afraid that the one we got could be bigger than someone we think it might suit to be better equipped than us.
Or …
We can follow the signs beyond the symbol and walk down the path that lead us to the true matter and then do something about it.
Is it normal to wish my penis was smaller?
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Well, here's at thing of importance - as I said before: the penis is not the problem, it is a symbol of the problem.
But not just any random symbol!
It is a symbol of the problem because it actually can be used for drawing a metaphorical picture of the problem. That means that we can get some knowledge of the problem be analyzing the symbol.
What do we know from earlier?
1) We found out, that guys like us, who a slightly above average, might feel homeless and like we doesn't belong anywhere, because we are neither medium or large.
2) Then we found out, that we are forced to compete, but can't and doesn't even want to.
3) Further more we saw the aspect of control. In our position everything is uncertain. Another guy could have a bigger or a smaller. There's no way of knowing. Only doubt and to many possibilities. But … if we had a penis, that was barely average or even quite small, we could almost be sure, that the other guy had a bigger one. By knowing that for a fact, we would be in control.
4) Last but not least we found out, that our penis might not reflect our personality. Even though we have border-penises that are not definite big, they are to close to big, for someone who doesn't feel like a big-penis-person.
That should tell us a bit about the problem.
About 1): Maybe in other aspects of life we feel like we doesn't belong. We might think we are different in some way.
About 2): Maybe in our daily life there are expectations and claims we feel unable to live up to, meet and fulfill.
About 3): Maybe there are some difficult uncertainties in our lives. Or maybe too many situations we feel unable to control.
About 4): Maybe we have difficulties about showing other people how we really are. Or maybe we feel misjudged by other people.
There are some similarities in those things. Perhaps we have often been misunderstood? Perhaps we think the world is chaotic, feels a little lost in it and longing for some kind of order/system?
Please be aware, that I said "maybe" and "perhaps" about all those things. It could be like that. Or it could be in another way.
But at least it should demonstrate, that there actually ARE clues in the symbol about the nature of the problem. I am just not sure I read the clues right or even managed to found out what the clues are. But I do not doubt, that there ARE clues, and that they actually CAN reveal the true nature of the problem.
So the solution?
That's simple: Finding out what the real problem is and what to do about it!
Off course - that goes for myself as well. We can both sit for the rest of our lives and dream about having this nice little penis and try to masturbate the fear out of the body, every time we are afraid that the one we got could be bigger than someone we think it might suit to be better equipped than us.
Or …
We can follow the signs beyond the symbol and walk down the path that lead us to the true matter and then do something about it.