Before I go into the search of a useful solution, I would like to say a bit about solutions I think are down right idiotic, because they simply doesn't help.
All that talk about liking your penis and being satisfied with the one you got. Well, that is exactly the problem. If only we were able to do that. But we are not. It is like saying to a person who's afraid of heights: "Oh, you shouldn't be. Just go up into that tower." But the person IS afraid of heights and doesn't dare to go up in that tower.
Some would then say. "Take it step by step. You stand on a newspaper, then on a book and so on".
It is stupid!
The reason why?
Because it doesn't come anywhere near the true problem.
Maybe that person actually might get cured for fear of heights. But just as soon as it is gone, it would get a new phobia.
I heard about this little child who had all kinds of inflammations. The doctor just gave it penicillin, penicillin and more penicillin. Until the parents found out, the child had allergy against milk.
That silly doctor is not the only one. That is how most people - especially so called experts - try to deal with any kind of illness.
That is NOT a solution!
For a real cure you need to find the actual problem.
And let there be no doubt: neither for you or me the actual problem is the size of our penises.
Believe me when I say, that I know how you feel and how painful that is. Some might think it is just some kind of funny little game you got going, that giving you some grate and enjoyable fantasies. I do not! I know how you are suffering and feel that you are eaten up inside by that extra inch or two. There might be just a dash of pleasure somewhere in the puzzle, but probably you are suffering the most, when the hints of pleasure peaks. Believe me - I know!
But you must believe me about this too: that is NOT the case. It just seems like the case, because you have mixed up the concrete and symbolic.
So in the next paragraph we will go on a search for what is buried behind the mask of the symbol ...
Is it normal to wish my penis was smaller?
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Before I go into the search of a useful solution, I would like to say a bit about solutions I think are down right idiotic, because they simply doesn't help.
All that talk about liking your penis and being satisfied with the one you got. Well, that is exactly the problem. If only we were able to do that. But we are not. It is like saying to a person who's afraid of heights: "Oh, you shouldn't be. Just go up into that tower." But the person IS afraid of heights and doesn't dare to go up in that tower.
Some would then say. "Take it step by step. You stand on a newspaper, then on a book and so on".
It is stupid!
The reason why?
Because it doesn't come anywhere near the true problem.
Maybe that person actually might get cured for fear of heights. But just as soon as it is gone, it would get a new phobia.
I heard about this little child who had all kinds of inflammations. The doctor just gave it penicillin, penicillin and more penicillin. Until the parents found out, the child had allergy against milk.
That silly doctor is not the only one. That is how most people - especially so called experts - try to deal with any kind of illness.
That is NOT a solution!
For a real cure you need to find the actual problem.
And let there be no doubt: neither for you or me the actual problem is the size of our penises.
Believe me when I say, that I know how you feel and how painful that is. Some might think it is just some kind of funny little game you got going, that giving you some grate and enjoyable fantasies. I do not! I know how you are suffering and feel that you are eaten up inside by that extra inch or two. There might be just a dash of pleasure somewhere in the puzzle, but probably you are suffering the most, when the hints of pleasure peaks. Believe me - I know!
But you must believe me about this too: that is NOT the case. It just seems like the case, because you have mixed up the concrete and symbolic.
So in the next paragraph we will go on a search for what is buried behind the mask of the symbol ...