This time I will say a bit about control and how this works with the other elements.
I mentioned control, when I told you about tensions, saying that loosing control is a part of a tension. But not just losing - gaining as well. Because if you are about to loose control, you will try to hold on to it, and be sure that if you are trying to establish control, it is because you are about to loose. Else you won't need to! - So there you got oppositions again.
A way of securing control is to make things worse than they are. Everybody who has been unsecured about what some might say, to some kind of work they have done, has used the trick of being an extremely hard critic on them self. "Oh, that is some hit. Not good at all." That is a way of getting control. Because if you are hard enough on yourself, nobody can say something worse. You know better than anyone what would hurt you the most. So repeating the most hurting thing up in your head again and again, you are on the safe side. No one can reach you with their criticism.
Remember what I said about penis size being like a boxing fight? And even more I said, that guys like us are kind of forced into the game without a chance to win.
Well, being thrown into a boxing ring against your will and then knocked-out as soon as the fight begins is not much fun. So using the same system as against criticism you say: I am no fighter. I am weak, I am slow, I don't know the techniques of a good punch and so on. You are out of the ring. By making yourself even more weak and slow you move further away. You might add a handicap or two to make sure, and move even further away.
At last at safe distance … you are in control!
It is exactly the same with penis size. If you are just slightly above average, there might me just a glimse of a chance, it is the biggest she have ever seen (though it is highly unlikely). Why put yourself through that hell? If it is so small, that there is not one bit of a chance it is the biggest she have ever seen, you are on the safe side and completely in control.
You can't compete, but you don't have to either!
And that's the point: you're getting out of that awful situation, where you are forced to compete, but can't. You don't have to. You are free and out of trouble!
That's a kind of security-system. But how can this be something that makes you horny?
Because of the tensions and oppositions!
And maybe one more thing (or rather: another opposition): to gain control you have to loose something else (a part of your size). Actually the system requires that you go to a lower position, moving further away from the champion. And be sure: that WILL cause tension!
Is it normal to wish my penis was smaller?
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This time I will say a bit about control and how this works with the other elements.
I mentioned control, when I told you about tensions, saying that loosing control is a part of a tension. But not just losing - gaining as well. Because if you are about to loose control, you will try to hold on to it, and be sure that if you are trying to establish control, it is because you are about to loose. Else you won't need to! - So there you got oppositions again.
A way of securing control is to make things worse than they are. Everybody who has been unsecured about what some might say, to some kind of work they have done, has used the trick of being an extremely hard critic on them self. "Oh, that is some hit. Not good at all." That is a way of getting control. Because if you are hard enough on yourself, nobody can say something worse. You know better than anyone what would hurt you the most. So repeating the most hurting thing up in your head again and again, you are on the safe side. No one can reach you with their criticism.
Remember what I said about penis size being like a boxing fight? And even more I said, that guys like us are kind of forced into the game without a chance to win.
Well, being thrown into a boxing ring against your will and then knocked-out as soon as the fight begins is not much fun. So using the same system as against criticism you say: I am no fighter. I am weak, I am slow, I don't know the techniques of a good punch and so on. You are out of the ring. By making yourself even more weak and slow you move further away. You might add a handicap or two to make sure, and move even further away.
At last at safe distance … you are in control!
It is exactly the same with penis size. If you are just slightly above average, there might me just a glimse of a chance, it is the biggest she have ever seen (though it is highly unlikely). Why put yourself through that hell? If it is so small, that there is not one bit of a chance it is the biggest she have ever seen, you are on the safe side and completely in control.
You can't compete, but you don't have to either!
And that's the point: you're getting out of that awful situation, where you are forced to compete, but can't. You don't have to. You are free and out of trouble!
That's a kind of security-system. But how can this be something that makes you horny?
Because of the tensions and oppositions!
And maybe one more thing (or rather: another opposition): to gain control you have to loose something else (a part of your size). Actually the system requires that you go to a lower position, moving further away from the champion. And be sure: that WILL cause tension!