No it's not normal to wish that. But it's not wrong either. It's true and unfair that women have so many more options to express themselves than men. In a lot of areas, men are much more oppressed than women.
Women can wear whatever they want, look however they want, and even if most men don't find the way they choose to be, they are generally not scorned by society. They can be as quirky as they want and a lot of people find it cute. But if a man doesn't look "masculine", there's something wrong with him. It's acceptable for women to cry over a broken nail, but wrong for a man to cry when he's been shot. It's considered sexy to be a lesbian, but sick to be gay. A girl can have sexual experiences with another girl and it's just being "open minded" or experimenting, but if a guy has anything more than a handshake or the occasional hug, like if someone dies, with another guy, then he's gay and again a repulsive sicko.
Women who work are strong and women who stay home are nurturing, but a guy who doesn't work his ass off so his wife can stay home and be "nurturing" is worthless.
Nowadays a lot of these concepts are changing, slowly. Stay at home dads are becoming more common and accepted. A man showing his emotions is seen by some as sensitive and that's a good thing. Gay people are being accepted more as human beings than freaks.
But straight guys wearing dresses has yet to catch on.
If I were you and wanted more options in clothing I would try to find new options without trying to dress like a girl. Women wearing pants and shorts also has it's practical reasons. That's how it started. When women started to become more active in the workplace they started wearing pants more. It's harder to move in a dress as freely and also leaves you more exposed to the elements if you are spending more time outside. This is why I usually where pants.
There's very little practical reason for a man to wear a dress. If it's super hot out, sure, it'll breath better, but unless you are wearing leggings, which defeats the purpose, you are going to sweat a lot and get horrible heat rash on your thighs.
I don't agree with women trying to show their superiority to men by trying to dress and act like men. How does this make sense? You are showing you are better than them by becoming them?
But women are superior to men...in some ways. And Vice Versa. Women get to give birth. Men are physically stronger. Women are more emotionally intelligent. Men tend to thing more on cold hard facts.
These things are true.
But men can be great fathers. Women can be as strong as they need to be. Men can learn to express their feelings in a more honest way and are perfectly capable of finding a deeper meaning to the cold hard facts. Women can set their feelings aside and do what needs to be done.
Is it normal to wish it was acceptable to wear girls clothes?
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No it's not normal to wish that. But it's not wrong either. It's true and unfair that women have so many more options to express themselves than men. In a lot of areas, men are much more oppressed than women.
Women can wear whatever they want, look however they want, and even if most men don't find the way they choose to be, they are generally not scorned by society. They can be as quirky as they want and a lot of people find it cute. But if a man doesn't look "masculine", there's something wrong with him. It's acceptable for women to cry over a broken nail, but wrong for a man to cry when he's been shot. It's considered sexy to be a lesbian, but sick to be gay. A girl can have sexual experiences with another girl and it's just being "open minded" or experimenting, but if a guy has anything more than a handshake or the occasional hug, like if someone dies, with another guy, then he's gay and again a repulsive sicko.
Women who work are strong and women who stay home are nurturing, but a guy who doesn't work his ass off so his wife can stay home and be "nurturing" is worthless.
Nowadays a lot of these concepts are changing, slowly. Stay at home dads are becoming more common and accepted. A man showing his emotions is seen by some as sensitive and that's a good thing. Gay people are being accepted more as human beings than freaks.
But straight guys wearing dresses has yet to catch on.
If I were you and wanted more options in clothing I would try to find new options without trying to dress like a girl. Women wearing pants and shorts also has it's practical reasons. That's how it started. When women started to become more active in the workplace they started wearing pants more. It's harder to move in a dress as freely and also leaves you more exposed to the elements if you are spending more time outside. This is why I usually where pants.
There's very little practical reason for a man to wear a dress. If it's super hot out, sure, it'll breath better, but unless you are wearing leggings, which defeats the purpose, you are going to sweat a lot and get horrible heat rash on your thighs.
I don't agree with women trying to show their superiority to men by trying to dress and act like men. How does this make sense? You are showing you are better than them by becoming them?
But women are superior to men...in some ways. And Vice Versa. Women get to give birth. Men are physically stronger. Women are more emotionally intelligent. Men tend to thing more on cold hard facts.
These things are true.
But men can be great fathers. Women can be as strong as they need to be. Men can learn to express their feelings in a more honest way and are perfectly capable of finding a deeper meaning to the cold hard facts. Women can set their feelings aside and do what needs to be done.
So, it's understandable for you to feel that way.