Is it normal to wish i had the confidence of a whore?

Okay hear me out! Lol. K so I'm 19 and a virgin. It's cool though I think that's pretty normal right? Lol..but what's not cool is I've never had my first kiss! I've never done anything remotely sexual with anyone! I have needs. Haha. I know it can sound lame that I'm almost sounding desperate. If you knew me you would realize just how shy I am when it comes to guys. I haven't had the chance to be with a guy because I'm not confident enough to let any friendship with a guy get that far. I shy away from that because of many reasons..however the main point is I wish I had the confidence to let the guy just know I'm into him. To let him know I want to be with him and if he wants me then hey--he can take me. Lol. I know the word whore seems a bit much but the truth is I wish I could just jump to that feeling of thinking I can have any guy I want..but just so we're clear I don't actually want to be a whore. I just want the same sexy confidence where I feel like I can be one if I wanted to. Any way is this normal??..and if you have ANY advice PLEASE help me out.

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Based on 79 votes (68 yes)
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  • dappled

    I know you are focussing very much on the idea of you and a guy together, but you may perhaps need to focus just on yourself first and build up your self-image and self-confidence.

    I'm sure there are plenty of guys who would be interested in you, but your biggest problem at the moment is the way you feel about yourself, not the way they feel about you.

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  • wellthatsucks

    Fake it till you make it girl. This is normal, and to feel confident you have to play the part, think of the most confident woman you know of and step into her shoes figuratively speaking and go out thinking you are her, it doesn't have to be a whore for that matter. You're 19 come on, you can have any guy you want! I knew I could at that age. Wanting to have sex is not a crime and isn't something only whores do, sex is healthy, fun and should be enjoyed. Maybe you have to work that whole concept of a woman as a sexual being, it sounds like your perspective on sex is very negative, and you should work on that too.

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  • flutterhigh

    Just do what I do. When they walk into the room, drop down from the ceiling wearing nothing but diapers, grab them by both nipples and croon in their ear - "ravage my girl gear".

    Crabwalking away yelling "beef stroganoff" is an optional flair.

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    • shuggy-chan

      was that u last night??? i was drunk but i swear this happened. hey,, uhm sorry about the throw up. =P

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  • xchocoxbarx

    pretty much agree with dappled, and after you got your confidence (idk, maybe read some books about that will help) you could flirt with any guy you want. just be careful tho, you dont want them to get the idea that you are "cheap". however, girls who playing hard to get is more interesting in boys point of view. but sure you gotta throw some clue here and there also. lol. i know i know, it sounds complicated! but its the way it is...

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  • picflirt

    Nothing wrong with having self confidence, you just chose a term to "strive?" for of a confidence level.

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  • A_Slice_of_Life

    My advice is to NOT drink and wish you had the confidence of a whore.

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  • melovelongtime

    DILDO THAT SHIT

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  • 41ph4m413

    i could help u with that if you want baby ;)

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  • donkeyspuzz

    A whore is not confident. A true whore lacks all self respect and confidence thus giving her sex up for very little worth. It is sick and cheap.
    You show signs of someone who believes they are wothy of more than just one night stands and short flings just to get laid.
    Come to my house and I will plunge my donkey beast in you for months. You will love my sex and eventually worship the bed we fuck in.
    I will take photos and make videos and you can make the toast. Then we can sex for many more days. Once you are absolutely satisfied you may leave and use your new confidence to find new love.
    Beware though. Many have tried this and sought ways back to my sex nest. It is not possible. Come and go baby. Come. Stay. Cum. Then go. Don't come back.

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  • maddog546

    Depends on what kind of WHORE you're talking about.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    that's preposterous

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