Is it normal to wish him birthday when he doesnt care?

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Im in love (or atleast a very serious crush) with a guy. This aint the guy whom i have mentioned in my first story. To cut long story short, i've approached this guy A LOT of times in past and he never responded well. Never. I was such a fool to approach him with fake ids and all -my fault I KNOW :) anyway, i havnt contacted him since past couple of months, and have now sent him a text message saying happy birthday. Apparantly he doesnt know its me, seems like he never saved my cell number,and so he replied with a thanks and asked who i am. I just said you're welcome. He hasnt texted after that -may be he got it! Well m cool with it. I just want to ask the world out there (you wonderful people :) that is it normal to do what i've done today? Keeping in mind that this guy has never liked me or responded well and even humiliated me at times when i became clingy and probably insistent and annoying! I love him. I really do. I know he's not perfect n certainly not the best guy for me because he definitely thinks im psycho...and still i love him.

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  • lol_
    12 years ago

    You're not even dating..you DO NOT love him. This is just infatuation and you're lucky he's not the type who will use you-I have a friend who frequently uses the girls who like him just because he can.

    From what you've written, there is no hint that he likes you..and you just have to accept that sometimes.

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  • hoping4best
    10 years ago

    Follow up. I havnt contacted him in a long time now. He is still the ideal guy i'd want for me..but i know thats not gonna happen.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    It's normal to have a crush on anyone, but no matter how cute he is, you just have to let go if you know it's not likely to happen. You will find someone else sooner or later, just be patient.

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  • hoping4best
    12 years ago

    Yeah that makes sense. By the way how can u say that the original poster (me) contacted him from various facebook accounts? Because i dont remember saying it :)

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    • worried78
      12 years ago

      I said different on-line accounts because in your post you said you had contacted him using different IDs.

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  • hoping4best
    12 years ago

    Why would get a restraining order against you just because you love them. I dont get it.

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    • worried78
      12 years ago

      It is not the feelings that make me say that. It is that she is contacting a guy who has said 'no' multiple times, under different on-line accounts. Because no means no. Yes, even when it is the guy saying it.
      Bring this into perspective by turning the tables. Imagine some guy decides he loves you, based on your posts on, say, Facebook. You turn him down. He creates new profiles that you have to then keep blocking as you figure out that it's the same guy you already told to take a hike. Twoyears later he still won't leave you alone. Creepy.
      mind)and

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  • worried78
    12 years ago

    Creepy, stalkerish, obsessive...no, it's not ok. You should of stopped when he said he was not interested.

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  • worried78
    12 years ago

    I am surprised he hasn't threatened to get a restraining order. Seriously, I find what you are describing creepy. If the tables were reversed, and it was a guy doing what you've been I don't think people would feel so supportive of you.

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  • hoping4best
    12 years ago

    Only 25% normal? O.O

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  • hoping4best
    12 years ago

    But its been more than two years now. Is it still infatuation? I just wanted to know is it all right to do what i did?

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