I feel for you. I'm a guy and I hate the standard the media forces on men and women! TV producers can kiss my cock!
Back on topic!
Don't think that! I bet you any money that you are a lovely beautiful person, that is just insecure, cause of crappy friends/ classmates/ >insert generic people here<. Most times, the girl that thinks she is ugly, is amongst the prettiest, but just doesn't know it.
Don't think of what people think of you. You are free to do whatever you want. Why bind yourself like that?!
You are making your own "prison" with the coat thing.
You got time to enjoy the things life has to offer and please don't cut yourself. You seem to be an intelligent person, given the fact of how many times you have replied and the information in the reply/ poll.
And tell me. What good will isolating yourself do? You will feel worse.
Why should you suffer and cry, while others laugh and cheer? You shouldn't! It's rubbish! You are as good, if not better, than all of your collegues and friends.
Truth be told: Noone is perfect. Those friends and classmates of yours aren't all superstars and models. Are they? No, they are not. I bet my teeth on it! I used to feel somewhat insecure too. I was overweight back in school. I was the strongest in my class, but still, the boys would make fun and the girls would avoid me. I was that fat kid that sat in the first row and talked about cars to his, then, only best friend. I did not let that bring me down in the long run. One day I said: "Screw this. I am not going to ruin my life, cause of other people". I dealt with that insecurity. I found a way to get the girls to like me and the boys to look up to me. Humor on the ladies. I know a lot of jokes. Girls like to laugh, they did and found that I am a guy with a nice personality. And the boys? Gym challenge. Who can lift the most. I can, befriended most of them. That changed my life. Lost weight after time and things really started rolling. 12th grade, I was at the top of the class, friend with nearly everyone, a date to prom with the coolest and prettiest girl. Now I am in the university with very good friends that I can rely on and even love. Going on trips, party at friends place every weekend, helping a mate start his car on a cold morning (His doesn't start, mine does XD) and saving up for xenon headlights for my car. Now I have a bit of a beer belly, but hey... These are the effects of Germany on a person's immage right XD.
You can do that same thing (not the xenon headlighs, doubt you need those, or drinking large quantities of booze with frieds, watching Rambo II)! Enjoy life again!
Take that coat off, do what you are good at. Make new friends. What do you like to do? You like reading? Go make friends with people that like reading stuff. Like hiking? Go on a hike. Hikers are some of the nicest people I've ever met... Have a hobby. You like carving wood. Do it. You can even make a profit. You are what you want to be.
Ok, I've gone on for quite some time now, time to end this comment.
I would give you a big hug 'ya know?
I wish you the best.
Take care love.
It's really so lovely seeing all of these supportive comments I've been getting here, and knowing that not everyone is going to want to try to hurt me in someway.
There /are/ good people out there. I think I just need to find them- make some real friends who will stick by my side and give me a boost when I'm feeling down, not push me spiraling down even further.
I do just wish I just had someone to give me a big cuddle sometimes and just tell me that everything will be okay... But until then, I guess I'll just have to see this through on my own.
It's inspiring reading your story as well and seeing how you managed to turn your life around. You're very strong and brave, and I hope I'll be able to be like that one day. Thank you.. Please take care and carry on enjoying life, you deserve it.
Is it normal to wear a coat all the time?
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I feel for you. I'm a guy and I hate the standard the media forces on men and women! TV producers can kiss my cock!
Back on topic!
Don't think that! I bet you any money that you are a lovely beautiful person, that is just insecure, cause of crappy friends/ classmates/ >insert generic people here<. Most times, the girl that thinks she is ugly, is amongst the prettiest, but just doesn't know it.
Don't think of what people think of you. You are free to do whatever you want. Why bind yourself like that?!
You are making your own "prison" with the coat thing.
You got time to enjoy the things life has to offer and please don't cut yourself. You seem to be an intelligent person, given the fact of how many times you have replied and the information in the reply/ poll.
And tell me. What good will isolating yourself do? You will feel worse.
Why should you suffer and cry, while others laugh and cheer? You shouldn't! It's rubbish! You are as good, if not better, than all of your collegues and friends.
Truth be told: Noone is perfect. Those friends and classmates of yours aren't all superstars and models. Are they? No, they are not. I bet my teeth on it! I used to feel somewhat insecure too. I was overweight back in school. I was the strongest in my class, but still, the boys would make fun and the girls would avoid me. I was that fat kid that sat in the first row and talked about cars to his, then, only best friend. I did not let that bring me down in the long run. One day I said: "Screw this. I am not going to ruin my life, cause of other people". I dealt with that insecurity. I found a way to get the girls to like me and the boys to look up to me. Humor on the ladies. I know a lot of jokes. Girls like to laugh, they did and found that I am a guy with a nice personality. And the boys? Gym challenge. Who can lift the most. I can, befriended most of them. That changed my life. Lost weight after time and things really started rolling. 12th grade, I was at the top of the class, friend with nearly everyone, a date to prom with the coolest and prettiest girl. Now I am in the university with very good friends that I can rely on and even love. Going on trips, party at friends place every weekend, helping a mate start his car on a cold morning (His doesn't start, mine does XD) and saving up for xenon headlights for my car. Now I have a bit of a beer belly, but hey... These are the effects of Germany on a person's immage right XD.
You can do that same thing (not the xenon headlighs, doubt you need those, or drinking large quantities of booze with frieds, watching Rambo II)! Enjoy life again!
Take that coat off, do what you are good at. Make new friends. What do you like to do? You like reading? Go make friends with people that like reading stuff. Like hiking? Go on a hike. Hikers are some of the nicest people I've ever met... Have a hobby. You like carving wood. Do it. You can even make a profit. You are what you want to be.
Ok, I've gone on for quite some time now, time to end this comment.
I would give you a big hug 'ya know?
I wish you the best.
Take care love.
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Just thank you. ; - ;
It's really so lovely seeing all of these supportive comments I've been getting here, and knowing that not everyone is going to want to try to hurt me in someway.
There /are/ good people out there. I think I just need to find them- make some real friends who will stick by my side and give me a boost when I'm feeling down, not push me spiraling down even further.
I do just wish I just had someone to give me a big cuddle sometimes and just tell me that everything will be okay... But until then, I guess I'll just have to see this through on my own.
It's inspiring reading your story as well and seeing how you managed to turn your life around. You're very strong and brave, and I hope I'll be able to be like that one day. Thank you.. Please take care and carry on enjoying life, you deserve it.