First, I'm not clear if you (OP) are weirdgirl420. Your replies here suggest that you are, and the only other posts I see by you refer to you fantasising about your stepfather when you masturbate.
The law and religions lay down hard and fast rules for what is and isn't permissible when it comes to sex. Lots of people believe those rules are all you need to know, and any urges you may feel which are contrary to the rules mean you are suffering from a serious psychological disorder.
Of course, the same thing was said for centuries about people who were sexually attracted only to those of their same sex.
Sexual attraction is complicated. Most people really have no idea why certain types of people, certain physical characteristics or particular sexual activities push their happy buttons. Lots of people fall into the delusion of believing that what's normal for them is also the only valid normal for everyone else. And many people refuse to recognise and accept their true desires because they conflict with what they believe they _should_ want; such people tend to end up being miserable, the sort of person everyone hates spending time with and the cause of various social tensions and conflicts.
Since I don't know you, don't know your step-father and have no idea what the dynamics in your family are, I can't say for certain why you're sexually attracted to him. However, it's not uncommon for children to be similar (often in more ways than they're happy to admit) to the parent of their own sex, and I assume your mother finds (or at least once found) your step-father to be sexually attractive, so it's not completely shocking that you might have similar feelings. Or maybe he's just a guy who seems safer and much more familiar than any other man in your life, so sexual fantasies about him are easier and more comfortable than those involving any other guy you know.
It's not uncommon for there to be a competitive dynamic between mothers and daughters, so perhaps you get a thrill out of imagining you giving your step-father something your mother can't.
Step-families involving children and step-parents of the opposite sex can be a minefield. Since your step-father is obviously a man and you're (apparently) a young woman who's probably at least somewhat like a younger version of your mother, and he presumably does (or once did) find your mother sexually attractive, it's not impossible that you're responding to covert signals (which he might not even be aware of giving off) that he finds you sexually attractive. Women are generally very good at spotting such signals, even if they aren't always consciously aware that's what's going on.
Another possible factor is the appeal of violating a taboo. You know having sex with your step-father would be incredibly naughty, and that in itself makes the idea appealing.
We're all free to fantasise about whatever might push our buttons, no matter how immoral or twisted others might find those fantasies. As long as we keep those thoughts only in our heads and don't allow them to affect ourselves and others in real life, everything will be fine. But if we allow ourselves to lose sight of the fact that they are only fantasies, and we let ourselves start to believe that the play we've created in our head will work out exactly the same way in real life, then it's inevitable that there will be very real consequences, and highly likely that some of those won't be pleasant.
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First, I'm not clear if you (OP) are weirdgirl420. Your replies here suggest that you are, and the only other posts I see by you refer to you fantasising about your stepfather when you masturbate.
The law and religions lay down hard and fast rules for what is and isn't permissible when it comes to sex. Lots of people believe those rules are all you need to know, and any urges you may feel which are contrary to the rules mean you are suffering from a serious psychological disorder.
Of course, the same thing was said for centuries about people who were sexually attracted only to those of their same sex.
Sexual attraction is complicated. Most people really have no idea why certain types of people, certain physical characteristics or particular sexual activities push their happy buttons. Lots of people fall into the delusion of believing that what's normal for them is also the only valid normal for everyone else. And many people refuse to recognise and accept their true desires because they conflict with what they believe they _should_ want; such people tend to end up being miserable, the sort of person everyone hates spending time with and the cause of various social tensions and conflicts.
Since I don't know you, don't know your step-father and have no idea what the dynamics in your family are, I can't say for certain why you're sexually attracted to him. However, it's not uncommon for children to be similar (often in more ways than they're happy to admit) to the parent of their own sex, and I assume your mother finds (or at least once found) your step-father to be sexually attractive, so it's not completely shocking that you might have similar feelings. Or maybe he's just a guy who seems safer and much more familiar than any other man in your life, so sexual fantasies about him are easier and more comfortable than those involving any other guy you know.
It's not uncommon for there to be a competitive dynamic between mothers and daughters, so perhaps you get a thrill out of imagining you giving your step-father something your mother can't.
Step-families involving children and step-parents of the opposite sex can be a minefield. Since your step-father is obviously a man and you're (apparently) a young woman who's probably at least somewhat like a younger version of your mother, and he presumably does (or once did) find your mother sexually attractive, it's not impossible that you're responding to covert signals (which he might not even be aware of giving off) that he finds you sexually attractive. Women are generally very good at spotting such signals, even if they aren't always consciously aware that's what's going on.
Another possible factor is the appeal of violating a taboo. You know having sex with your step-father would be incredibly naughty, and that in itself makes the idea appealing.
We're all free to fantasise about whatever might push our buttons, no matter how immoral or twisted others might find those fantasies. As long as we keep those thoughts only in our heads and don't allow them to affect ourselves and others in real life, everything will be fine. But if we allow ourselves to lose sight of the fact that they are only fantasies, and we let ourselves start to believe that the play we've created in our head will work out exactly the same way in real life, then it's inevitable that there will be very real consequences, and highly likely that some of those won't be pleasant.