It is not wrong or abnormal. But I would advise you to focus on meaning the world to yourself. Give your life its own meaning. Don't depend on someone else. And I do hope that you don't use the great lengths you go to as a measure of what everyone should do. Do what you're comfortable with, and expect others to do what they're comfortable with. If you don't like their limits, then politely move on. Again, not that you do this. But I know people who do, so I thought it might be valuable to add. Good luck.
Thank you for your reply. Indeed, it is important not to expect people to be as devoted as you are, but even if I told that so many times to myself, I can't help but feel sad for not being loved as much as I love and sacrifice for them. I do love myself, but I also need others to love and accept me.
Is It Normal to Want Yourself to Mean the World to Someone?
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It is not wrong or abnormal. But I would advise you to focus on meaning the world to yourself. Give your life its own meaning. Don't depend on someone else. And I do hope that you don't use the great lengths you go to as a measure of what everyone should do. Do what you're comfortable with, and expect others to do what they're comfortable with. If you don't like their limits, then politely move on. Again, not that you do this. But I know people who do, so I thought it might be valuable to add. Good luck.
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Thank you for your reply. Indeed, it is important not to expect people to be as devoted as you are, but even if I told that so many times to myself, I can't help but feel sad for not being loved as much as I love and sacrifice for them. I do love myself, but I also need others to love and accept me.