Is it normal to want your friends to touch you or could i be gay?

I really like one of my female friends. I find myself wanting to hug her and hold her hand and braid her hair a lot because I feel happy when I touch her. I'm not sure know about kissing but I'd be willing to give it a try. Am I gay or do I just like cuddles?

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Based on 15 votes (12 yes)
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  • ellnell

    Some people are just more physical than others and you should imagine dating and being intimate with a woman. If that turns you off you are not gay.

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  • fatok

    Perfectly normal since you are gay. You should kiss her and suck her nipples

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  • Tommythecaty

    Full on dykeistical perhaps.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    I think if it's at the point that you needed to ask, you're probably gay. I think if you weren't, that possibility probably wouldn't even cross your mind.

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  • mayumayu

    I'm going to preface this by saying platonic contact with your friends is a completely normal thing to want and enjoy. However, if you're wondering if you might have feelings for this person then it's worth thinking about in depth - how does it make you feel to imagine kissing her or asking her out, for example? If it makes you uncomfortable, then you have your answer.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    It doesn’t necessarily mean you are romantically attracted to her, some people just like touching more than others.

    I think one of my friends in college went through this, we were in the kitchen at a party once and she leaned in and gently kissed me for a second. Then we broke away, I said thank you and we laughed. Sometimes platonic love comes out in odd ways.

    This isn’t to say you definitely aren’t gay or bi though it’s just a possibility.

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  • Normal if you two are females.

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  • Somenormie

    Perfectly normal to like cuddles.

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