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My mom gets mad alot and I'm to afraid to stand up to her so I have imaginary conversations in my head about us yelling at eachother, but there's no way I'd ever do it in real life. Is it normal to want to but not?
You should look at your mom straight in her eyes and ask her in a calm voice " is there a reason you're yelling at me, I'm right here" or call her on it " oh, it's my fault you're having a bad day is it"? I guess these things are all fine in theory because they are easier said than done, I know. I'll tell you a secret about humans... We hate to be ignored! Try not responding in the slightest way, no answers back, no expressions on your face, nothing to make her think you heard a thing! The walking away thing works well too, without saying a word!! But you know, you don't want to enrage her, I don't know what kind of mom you have and I don't want to see you get your ass beat or thrown out!! You could do little things to screw with her, hide her keys! Go in her makeup bag and once in a while take something and throw it in the sewer!! Go take one of her shoes outside and squish it in dog shit then put it back exactly the way you found it! But if you are a girl the makeup thing won't work because she would blame you. You could also go into the laundry room, one week take her bra and throw it in the sewer down the road, next week, take her jeans to school and toss them in the lost and found!! Change your handwriting and fill out a bunch of those magazine subscriptions to stupid things like bride magazine and mens fitness!! You get the idea!! Be brave, be strong, soon enough you will move out! Good luck!!
I think it's perfectly normal I always do it but it's not good to keep those feeling inside. Its not your falt that you can't tell you mum what you feel be at least sit her down and tell her your true feeling. My dad died last year and I sort of blamed my mum but after taking to her about my feeling we have became closer than we ever were before. Good luck. :)
It's fine, try to see if. you can stay calm. Just mouth the words, u can just answer, make ur point, and go to ur room before she tells u to, try to get on her good side my washig the dishes without being told . U might think u hate hate ur mom. But imagine it from her perspective.
Believe me, it's completely normal! For the most part, I yell back at my mom. My dad on the other hand, is a completely different story. My mom is not nearly as strict as my dad. Although he's never done this, my father would probably slap me across the face if I yelled at him. Just be calm, cool, and collective, and say something along the lines of "Mom, no disrespect intended, but please stop yelling at me." I've done it before, and it works like a charm. :)
my mom is a bitch straight up. she has no god damn lif eof her own litterally. so she picks on all her kids including me, and she tries to start shit with my older brother but he walks away and she leave shim alone. but when i walk away she fkn chases me and screams at me for having a fkn towel in the bathroom hanging to dry. ya no sense in making shit out of nothing right?
i tell my mom she is a straight up selfish uselless inconsiderate bitch because she is.
and i have screamed at her too and so has my little sister.
i am 24 gng 25 next month. and my mom still tries to start shit with me. my bro is 26. my mom has no life. tell your mom to get a fkn life and leave u the fk alone