Is it normal to want to watch your wife with another man?

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Twenty five years ago, having done some weed at a party with many others, I watched my girlfriend have sex with another guy. At the time I remember feeling part jealous and mad, part chilled, and part horny. We talked about it later that weekend but we got over it. However, I got increasingly horny every time I thought about it but it never happened again. We split some months later when I joined the army.

I've now been married for 15 years - life is good, until a few months ago when my wife and I got pissed at a party (no dope this time). When I say pissed - my wife was paraletic. Another guy gave me a hand helping my wife stagger home, and when we arrived we all just flopped on the sofa. In her drunken state my wife turned to me for a quick snog, and then to my surprise turned around to the other bloke and did the same. She's never done anything like this before.

I think I then had one of those drunken long blinks as I woke with a start to find my wife still kissing this bloke, but he was now have a good grope. I don't know why I did it but I took the guy's hand off my wife's boob, and slid it up her skirt. He got the message and in no time his hand was inside her knickers. I could tell my wife was getting very horny, but after a couple of minutes she suddenly came to her senses and moved his hand away. He left sharpish.

She never forgets anything that happens when shes drunk and mentioned it in the morning. She said she moved his hand away as she was worried what I thought, but confessed she was enjoying it and could have carried on. I assured her I was ok with it.

I've now confessed that I would have let her go all the way. The thought of that is an incredible turn on. She is actually gutted that she stopped.

Am I normal for wanting this to carry on?

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  • RegularMarriedGuy
    5 years ago | pl

    It is a huge turn on for me to watch my wife fucking out men. My wife is attractive. She's not skinny. She is 5'5" 180lb redhead, with 42D Tits, Large Nipples, and thick labia. I started sharing her with friends and aquaintences behore we got married. My first wife was a bit of a prude, so when I decided to get marrried again I found a woman that enjoyed being used as a fuck toy. We've been happily married over 25 years, and she is still my slut. I have found that she holds back and is more self conscious when I am around. So sometimes I'll drop her off with a group of men and come back when they are done using her. My only requirement is that she comes home with a belly full of cum, a worn out pussy, and a well distended anus.

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  • MOLE
    6 years ago | pl

    Hello All,
    My name is Nnamdi.I really cant explain it, but I get turned on when other men see my wife naked with a completely and cleanly-shaven virgina. I also get turned on when men watch her watch her massive milk factory or buttocks shake wildly as she walks. I can only imagine whats on their mind. I can imagine these men fondling or sucking her breast hard like they will produce milk or grabbing and squeezing those arse cheeks like it belonged to them. I love it when my wife's buttocks are completely spead apart revealing everything.

    I can also imagine them smelling her if they choose too. They might also decide to taste or lick her if it thrills them. They are allowed to have her suck their dicks and pour their cum on her breast or beautiful face.I also get turned on when these men plough my wife's virgina without condoms or bury their massive cocks in her arsehole untill it dissapears completely without condoms.I also get excited when they fuck her real hard like they have a lesson to teach her. The slurping sound and the farts that originate from fucking her also turns me on. I get excited when they ejaculate and fill her belly with their cum for every round. The thought knowing that my prim and proper wife has been fucked by other men turns me on again and again. Wish I could express my fantasies to her.

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  • Joey22
    6 years ago | pl

    Hi no it doesn't look weird i let my wife get fucked by another guy he was so much bigger than i was so the sounds she made were beautiful i felt so good letting my wife have something different just hearing her cum time and time again made me so happy

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  • theothercuck
    6 years ago | pl

    I would say it's normal. A friend of mine wanted me to try weed and she offered to make out with me. To my surprise her husband laughed and agreed. We did it!

    After that I tried to be less jealous, and my started dating a girl. She worked in the theater and I had to watch her stage kiss. I was really jealous at first and it made my stomach turn, but eventually got used to it. Once we were married she told me she had an intense sex scene coming up, and when she rehearsed she came home wanting some action. It really spiced up our bedroom life. We joked about how good the sex was and she said, "Who knew the secret to good sex is letting another guy kiss my boobs?" When she went for her next rehearsal I said, "This doesn't sound right, but I hope you get naked and kiss another guy". When I finally saw the production the sex we had afterward was the best in my life. I was going to see shows just watch those scenes. I was jealous watching them, but man, that after sex was great.

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    • boobsman
      5 years ago | pl

      One of the most experiences I had with my wife was when she worked as a topless waitress. She only had the job for about 6 weeks but she loved it. She wore heels, thong, stockings, suspenders and a cupless bra as her uniform. She would serve drinks to the tables and would have her boobs squeezed by most of the guys there. Some would even pinch or tweak her nipples as she served the drinks.
      Her boss really liked her boobs too and would often suck them at the end of each shift. When she returned home each night she would take pleasure in telling me the details of what the guys in the club did with her big boobs. Her account made me very jealous but I found it exciting too.

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  • highonlove
    10 years ago | pl

    Yes it is totally normal. Many couples have made this fantasy a reality.

    Once you get over the anxiety of jealousy - and you will over time - the experience will be absolutely fantastic. And if you are worried about ruining your relationship - don't. From my experience it will not only elevate the sensual/sexual side to a new level, but will make the relationship much stronger. This could be part due to the fact, that when you engage in such a fantasy, it will require building a very strong trust relationship between you and your wife/gf. This trust, in turn, will act like a glue in all other aspects of your life.

    In my case it contributed to a totally new level of sex life, made me a much more sensual person in bed and changed my relations to her outside of the bedroom. I say so many more nice words to her now, then before all of this started. BTW, we are together for 20 years now.

    My wife is a tall, slim, gorgeous beauty with dark long hair. She has first met another guy about 12 years ago, after many of my delicate suggestions. I had to leave on a work assignment to another city and was only coming home about twice per month. My suggestions and her loneliness probably played part in it, and she met the guy who was hitting on her for some time. They did it when I was away and she recorded it with a hidden cam. My emotions that first time were ranging from total jealousy to extreme erotic arousal. I felt happy one time and lonely/almost betrayed another. But it was like a drug. I liked it so much. Have never before experienced such sexual intensity and arousal.

    She did it several more times with this guy over a number of months. Then she stopped for a few years - work, kids, busy life. With my suggestions she went back to the lifestyle. Put adds on singles sites etc. She started meeting guys and the more it was happening the more my emotions were shifting away from jealousy to sensuality, arousal, love for her.

    We are a so much better couple now. We used to argue and be nasty to each other a lot more often before this started happening. Now, we barely argue ever. I am more relaxed and I feel that my love to her is on par or better than when me met for the first time.

    She is seeing a guy now, that will go through the whole night with her. Last time she had three orgasms during the night, and then they did it again twice in the morning. This guy is incredible. He is so nice and sensual to her and makes her go to new levels with sexual arousal. She brings these new levels back home, where it really makes a difference in our sex life.

    BTW, she recorded video only twice. She prefers to have privacy with a guy. Makes her more at ease and enjoy the whole thing way better. However, she agreed to use a little voice recorder if she can in a given situation. Let me tell you. The sound recordings are even better than the video. My mind is discovering the levels of sensuality and emotions I never new existed in me. Probably the imagination adds to it, since I don't see the video.
    She would not feel comfortable with a threesome or if I was watching life. I don't know if I would not feel awkward just siting there and watching. Instead, I prefer to let my imagination go loose when she is doing it and then listen to the recording afterwards.

    Best of luck to you.

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