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I want to wait until marriage before i have anymore sex its not a religous thing i just want to save myself for someone special...does anyone else feel the same way? Is it normal
I would'nt. You don't go into a shoe store and not try on the shoes your about to purchase. Fun Sex and love making with your partner is the absolute strength builder in a marriage. It builds such a bond between to people. I have been married for over 20 years. So if one of you really suck at it or decide its not all that then the other will suffer in the marriage.
Opposites attract only for a short time. Common ideas, likes and dislikes keep a marriage together.
As well as you should! Sex is only great between you and the person you love, so I applaud you for waiting until marriage!
I'm 18 and still a virgin. That doesn't make me a loser though. I just never wanted to do it with my ex.
No its not normal but its not a bad trait. You are making a good choice that you are 95% guaranteed to not be disappointed with.
Clearly if you're using the term, "noob", no one's going to take you seriously. Not everyone wants to whore themselves around like you.
It's a perfectly normal personal decision. Don't let people tell you it's not, because as long as it's your personal decision and it makes you feel confortable and happy to do so, that's all that matters. Also, if the assumtion that you've already had it before is true, then don't think that not being a virgin makes waiting to do it again strange. Again, if it's what makes you happy and comfortable, go for it!
At the same time, though, it's also perfectly normal if you slip up or come close to it, so don't beat yourself up if you do. To be perfectly honest, this decision is something that goes against our instincts to mate and reproduce, but I personally see that a simple effort to control the urges, whether we're successful or not, shows a strength of mind and character. What really matters is that you hold off until you find someone who you'll be happy being intimite with.
I think you will find that when you do meet a person you're attracted to, you wont feel the need to wait untill marriage anymore. I know my girlfriend wanted to wait untill atleast 5 months, and I supported that, but she just couldnt help it.
Waiting untill marriage is normal, but do you really want to leave one of the best pleasures of life untill your 20, 25, even 30+?
I think it's kind of sweet. I totally think it's normal and support people who thinks like that.
It's normal, but when you say "before i have anymore sex" it means that you're not a virgin and that someone won't be that special. In my opinion, I think you'll have to find the partner that's not a virgin and is also "saving themselves". Otherwise, the best of luck finding him/her.
I like and think its normal... but marriage isnt for everyone... your "special guy" may never want to be married.
NO! OMG! This can't possibly be true! This is NOT! normal AT ALL in any way, shape, or form.
NOBODY saves there selves for marriage what are you crazy? We ALL whore ourselves out to as many people that we can in the shortest amount of time we can.
Seriously, get professional help. You are SICK in the head dude....
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You are the one that needs help!
Everyone doesn't want to be a whore like you, there are actually people that have self respect, not that I expect you to understand that.
I'm pretty sure you don't know what sarcastic means then. In the beginning of your text, sure I get how that can come of as sarcasem, however with this ending:
"Seriously, get professional help. You are SICK in the head dude...."
It stops being sarcastic, instead it shows your immature view on society.
You can give your opinion, but atleast have the balls to stand by them.