Is it normal to want to wait to have sex till i'm married

Especially on this site everyone talks about how they have had sex before marriage!!! Does anyone wait anymore? You may feel guilty for the rest of your life! Please share your thoughts!!

Is It Normal?
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  • We all think differently

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  • Save yourself for your truest love. wait until your bonded forever!

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  • Don't you want to know the person you have sex with is the person you will be forever?

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  • Wait!!!! I wish I wasn't sexually active until after marriage other ppl do too but they r so wrapped up in bullshit If u can wait just wait nothing bad can come of it! Nd if someone leaves u for not having sex then they were never worth it and r selfish pieces of shit

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  • despite what people tell you, you almost don't change at all once you've had sex. if anything, you feel better and more mature as a person.

    waiting for marriage is OK and even honourable, but don't put your first time on a pedestal. remember: most--if not all woman--don't orgasm on their first time.

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    • and anybody who attempts to have sex without any previous penetration is setting themselves up for a NIGHTMARE. you might as well be getting your teeth pulled.

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  • people who have had sex have morals too, if one think other wise one is whack!

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  • I used to believe in waiting, but then I had sex. It really isn't that big of a deal.

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  • it's a personal choice. i think it's best to save it for marraige, or at least until you find someone you really love and care about. i don't respect people who do it with multitudes of people they don't care about.

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  • Terrible idea. Like wearing white after Labor Day.

    Seriously, if sex is unimportant and has no value to you and you want to be a breed sow for some fat, unattractive, unimaginative pig, be a virgin until you're married.

    Hey, for that matter, why not be a virgin AFTER you're married. Doesn't that make sense too? How bout we wait after marriage and all lose our virginity after getting a secret signal from an orbiting flying saucer? Maybe a flying cup AND saucer.

    We should all live our lives by arbitrary rules set forth by dead people.

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  • What if hes SHIT in bed youd be gutted and get divorced instantly

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  • Your first time having sex usually does not feel pleasurable. It hurts and sometimes there is blood! That wouldn't make for a very romantic honeymoon. If you wanna wait that is fine, but I don't think sex is that big of a deal

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  • Well what if u wait then u get married and u have sex and there is no chemistry sexually? U can't just get a divorce! So idk

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  • It changes for me, sometimes I don't want to wait and other times I feel like I should. I think it's normal to want to wait.

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  • It's more of a religious thing.

    Im not religious, but that doesn't mean im going out getting laid every night.

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  • That's mean ur waitn for love that's totally right

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  • Hah it's not that big of a deal.. You don't change or turn into someone different .. I mean if find someone that you like or love and it's the moment, go for. But if you think your going to feel guilty after, it seems like your not ready yet. Or maybe you haven't found the right person to make you feel ready. Anyways, it is normal to wait. It's whatever you believe in. And don't think it's the right thing to do. Do it when your ready, you shouldn't set a date when you should have sex. It should just come naturally.

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  • these days i think it is important to have sex b4 marriage or how will u know u have that connection. sex is an important part of a relationship and not doing it will result in wondering eyes by ur partner. you may also find it hard to find a partner that would be willing 2 wait. if u use the right protection what does it really matter. practise makes perfect so go get sum action so u can impress ur future wife/hubby with ur smooth moves.

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  • i dont feel guilty. i never expected myself to wait for marriage anyways, i was just waiting for love so when i found it, i did it. and its fun. i lost my virginity at 16, and it wasnt magical or whatever but i would rather be disappointed by someone i would grow up and forget about then someone I'm supposed to be spending the rest of my life with.
    i have had a lot of great sex since then and i know i will continue to in the future so im happy with the choices i have made.

    plus, when couples wait till marriage then they are both virgins and have no idea what to do on the wedding night. plus people who stay virgins for too long are always awkward and romanticize it way to much. its just sex. dogs do it in the street, its natural. you arent a special rose to be deflowered - your just an an animal with sex organs, might as well use em.

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  • Lmao. i doubt i'll feel guilty for the rest of my life..

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