Is it normal to want to wait

I love my boyfriend so much we fight alot tho and he always wants sex but I'm not ready after something happened to me before what do I tell him

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Based on 265 votes (176 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • TehPurpleOne

    Well, if he was a good boyfriend, he wouldn't keep pressuring you into it. It's okay if he wants it, but doesn't pester you constantly for it. It's not okay if he keeps annoying you about it. Do it when you're sure you're ready. Make sure he knows that.

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  • Andyailin

    Good for you. I lost my virginity without being even sure that I wanted to do it just because my boyfriend coulnt wait and he was pessuring me. I wouldn't recommend anyone to do it just to please their boys. Do it when you feel ready

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  • I left him cuz he didnt listen

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  • derker

    Tell him to fuck the fuck off fuck he sounds like such a horny little fag fuck i hope he goes to prison and gets all the poo pushin sex he wants little fucker

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    • jamydodo

      fck fuck poo pushin lmao

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  • I'm waiting as well :) I support you completely!

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  • cathy22

    if he loved you he would wait, too. He's telling you sex is the purpose of your relationship.

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  • ilovemyjew

    He isn't a good boyfriend if he wants sex. If he loves you and respects you, he will wait with you and help you get though whatever you went through. Tell him to keep his dick in his shorts xD

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  • unsure106

    Tell him to back off or you will find another boyfriend. If he keeps arguing with you about this then he does not really care about you.

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  • ThE_DoN

    Aha
    Teeeeeeeens

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  • Michael137

    Tell him you aren't ready, he shouldn't even need a reason. It's normal for him to want it but he should respect you enough to wait if that's what you want.

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  • amiami

    It's normal you shouldn't be treated like a prostitute

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  • seekingcleanfriendship

    Waiting is just the right thing to do. Then it will mean something special later. Too many people just do it turning it into a meaningless thing to do and making sure none of their relationships can last.

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  • solo-man

    That's really sad to be honest , why would u do that to him it' it could have. Been something personal

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  • sam1993

    What happened before if you don't mind me asking?

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  • 18

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  • BoredGuy

    how old are you?

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  • Tell him your gay

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