Is it normal to want to try something new?

Is it normal to want to do something with your partner that they may not enjoy? Has anyone ever done things with their partner/for their partner that they thought was unusual and weird? Like the use of toys etc...

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94% Normal
Based on 89 votes (84 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella

    Its normal to want to try something new, but please understand that if your partner doesn't want to consent to this new thing or things you need to respect that. Physical intimacy ought to be about an expression of shared love, not just lust, desire and satisfaction of one's own needs. If it turns out that your partner doesn't want to try the so-called "new things" please try not to be hurt or offended nor take it personally.

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    • Isthereanormal69

      Thankyou for your advise Rose, I wouldn't dream of forcing my partner into something they wouldn't want to do.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Right on.
        ;-)

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  • Jetmech

    My wife and I both have wanted to try different things and have.Either you both like it or neither like it or only one likes it.You will never know till you ask.Adding Zing to your sex life is a good thing.It keeps it interesting.

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  • happy2bme

    I always want to try didifferent things but as much as some stuff may turn my bf on he gets weirded out

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  • All you can do is ask them. They might laugh. They might even call you a pervert. But: they might want to give it a try. Jackpot!

    I think I've always been more kinky than my partners and I didn't need to have a discussion about it to know it, I could just tell. Or, I'd bring up milder ideas just to see their reaction. When they don't like the idea of it, I laugh it off.

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    • Isthereanormal69

      I have brought up somethings, some have been a yes, some have been a no, I wish more things were a yes but I can't complain! Thankyou for the advise purpler!

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