Is it normal to want to take a guy's virginity (and i'm a girl)?

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I have this fantasy, I want to either take a guy's virginity (I am female) or take a guy who is shy/inexperienced and completely teach him everything he should know about pleasing a woman. I also would love to just completely shock him because most people look at me as the innocent one out of all my friends, so to see me taking control would be a suprise.
I find it sexy when a guy makes me wait to have sex, I also find it sweet because I know he won't just mess around with anyone. I haven't been with many men but the few I have been with I was exclusive with and we were together for at least a year (my longest relationship was 3 years, shortest was 1). So I know what I'm looking for physically.

I don't know how aggressive I would be about it (Although I did have a fantasy of 'raping' a guy I liked in his sleep, like waking him up to me on top of him). However I like the idea of a guy remembering me for something.
Is this normal?
I've never met anyone else who felt this way

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  • kelili
    10 years ago | pl

    I have had three virgin in my life. No, only two because one of them admitted that his first time was with a guy. Anyway... The other was a guy who obviously had watched much porn and the third came very fast. With the third I was simulating like crazy and I was drunk and I was still moaning when he told that that he had finished. I didn't even know. Then I heard him bragging about not being a virgin anymore with his friends.

    Those memories are so far away.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      So I guess it can be enjoyable, I think my thing is that I want to be the one who gets remembered even I things don't work out

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    10 years ago | pl

    Hey dont fallow the stereotypes! Women can do it to!

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  • eyeamnicegirl
    7 years ago | pl

    Yes, it is normal. OK, it is "normal" if the person is of legal age to consent to sex; if you are wanting to do a 13-year old, that's a different story.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    10 years ago | pl

    I have to say that as a virgin so much pressure is on a guy when it comes to lack of experience etc to me the idea of someone not only being patient and understanding of the other person being inexperienced but wanting to teach them is amazing. However I am the last person who would know if this is normal haha

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