Is it normal to want to suck my boyfriends dick while he sleeps?

The whole consent thing is a lot more complicated and not as black and white as some would like to believe.

I had a weird experience once with one of my wives. She had just completed a major work project, and she was pissed off with me about not supporting her as much as she thought I should.

We never played dom-sub games, and she was generally pretty passive sexually. The morning after the big wind-up of the project, we were in bed and leading up to sex when she started telling me how much she was annoyed with me. Although I felt she was being very unreasonable and started to get annoyed with her, I still had an erection because of what she was doing, and she got on top of me in cowgirl position (which was pretty normal for us), still ranting at me. As we were fucking, I was thinking, "I really don't want to be doing this with her right now," but on the other hand... sex.

She got off, as she always did, but it wasn't anything spectacular, so it didn't seem like the scenario really pushed her buttons. I came too, but it was more like a, "Let's get this over and done with," thing.

Afterwards, it did feel a little rapey. I'm still not sure if I understand what was going on in her head at the time, but it did feel like I was being used.