<sigh> Yeah, that would, strictly speaking, be kinda rapey.
For what it's worth, I wouldn't be at all unhappy about waking up with my penis being sucked -- assuming it was by my girlfriend/partner/spouse, of course. I wouldn't be thrilled at all if it was some weirdo who had broken into the house.
It's always been a fantasy of mine, and I'm a little disappointed that it's never happened.
Trying to sort out consent by flatly asking him if he'd be okay with you doing it might not be the best plan. He'd then be expecting it, so you'd lose some of the impact when you did it.
You could mention it to him casually. Say you read something somewhere about a woman doing it to her guy. That would give you a good idea of how he'd respond if you did it.
Assuming he is your average male, this is a nice treat and not rapey. Based on the reespones from users that claim to be male, the male species might as well be castrated at birth.
See my exchange with/to Recluded, a supposed male, who then promptly downvotes my response.
Didn't downvote you once. But if you want me to, I can.
rape:
unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim.
You can't give consent if you're asleep, can you? That's rape by definition. But you're right, most guys would be fine with it after waking up. Still isn't a good excuse to not ask for permission.
Man does not live by fact alone. That’s what you don’t seem to get. They are in a consensual sexual relationship - normal people stop asking for permission to do pleasant sexual things for each other and just do them. I feel sorry for any partner that finds themselves stuck with you.
Indeed, they're in a consensual sexual relationship. They must be fairly comfortable talking about sex, are they not? There's no good reason for sucking someone off while they're sleeping. If the OP talked to her boyfriend before about wanting to do it while he's asleep, and he agreed, I have 0 problems. As for your definition of normal people, that's simply a shitty opinion, not what all normal people do.
Is it normal to want to suck my boyfriends dick while he sleeps?
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<sigh> Yeah, that would, strictly speaking, be kinda rapey.
For what it's worth, I wouldn't be at all unhappy about waking up with my penis being sucked -- assuming it was by my girlfriend/partner/spouse, of course. I wouldn't be thrilled at all if it was some weirdo who had broken into the house.
It's always been a fantasy of mine, and I'm a little disappointed that it's never happened.
Trying to sort out consent by flatly asking him if he'd be okay with you doing it might not be the best plan. He'd then be expecting it, so you'd lose some of the impact when you did it.
You could mention it to him casually. Say you read something somewhere about a woman doing it to her guy. That would give you a good idea of how he'd respond if you did it.
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Assuming he is your average male, this is a nice treat and not rapey. Based on the reespones from users that claim to be male, the male species might as well be castrated at birth.
See my exchange with/to Recluded, a supposed male, who then promptly downvotes my response.
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Didn't downvote you once. But if you want me to, I can.
rape:
unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim.
You can't give consent if you're asleep, can you? That's rape by definition. But you're right, most guys would be fine with it after waking up. Still isn't a good excuse to not ask for permission.
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Facts.
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Man does not live by fact alone. That’s what you don’t seem to get. They are in a consensual sexual relationship - normal people stop asking for permission to do pleasant sexual things for each other and just do them. I feel sorry for any partner that finds themselves stuck with you.
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Indeed, they're in a consensual sexual relationship. They must be fairly comfortable talking about sex, are they not? There's no good reason for sucking someone off while they're sleeping. If the OP talked to her boyfriend before about wanting to do it while he's asleep, and he agreed, I have 0 problems. As for your definition of normal people, that's simply a shitty opinion, not what all normal people do.