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Ok, one of my friends is under 18 and of course isn't married, but they want to start a family, (have a baby) like right now with their significant other, of course once 18 though, get married, I just wanted to know, is it normal?
I think it's normal to want a family and all but very stupid that young. I think the good time to want to start that is when you have a steady job and your own place and to be mentally ready for it.
NO- NO- NO- NO-
BAD GIRL! BAD- BAD GIRL!
Leave your poor womb alone K?
But seriously though, you may thínk youre ready for it, but youre absolutely not. So, use a condom for your own sake.
I'm the same way... I'm 19 and my aunt had her first baby and when I saw that kid I thought of all my friends (most of which I don't talk too much with anymore) and most of them are married. Then basically my head kind of snapped and I started thinking "I'm getting old and I want to have a family"
But you always wanna make sure that you're mentally stable, and preferable have financial stability.
It's not too uncommon to want to have a family at a young age, but many people rush into it or don't plan for it.
Forget it, unless you want to have a shit life on welfare and give the kid a shit upbringing. Get a job and live your life a bit first.
Tell them to grow up before they get married and have kids otherwise they will regret doing it and it will end in divorce
I wanted a family at a very young age an I ended up pregnant at 17. All I can say to anyone WANTING it, there will be time later, when your older an more mature. It's the hardest thing. Now I'm 24 with a 6 y/o daughter who is going on 15. I tell me husband all the time "I'm to immature to deal with immaturity"
Not to meantion adding a baby into a realtionship that needs to grow an mature on it's own is just asking for disaster. A kid never fixes anything, it will more like tear you apart, b/c the couple doesn't come 1st, the baby does.