I think it's normal. And I don't think it's because you're insecure (everyone is to an extent) and definitley when you're the prettier one, your less attractive partner makes you feel even prettier.
But I for one like to date people less attractive than me for the following reasons:
1. Men typically have low standards. They claim they are all about appearances but when it comes down to it, they go with what they think will get them laid regardless of how pretty (or not) the girl is. This is because they think hot girls are harder to get (because we are). He is so used to having sex with uglies (75% of girls are ugly in my opinion) that he feels lucky when he gets the hot girlfriend. Thus, he spoils you rotten and treats you like a queen because he likes to show you off and wants to keep it that way. Where as, the hotter the guy is, the more hot girls he sleeps with (especially if he has money, etc.) and so it's really nothing special when he gets to bang you and doesn't treat you as nice. (I also like to sleep with super sexy guys but I find them too cocky to seriously date).
2. I like the comments people make when you date someone less attractive than you are. "You are way out of his league." etc. This way, if you break up you basically automatically "win" the break up. He cheated on you? Not likely, but if he did it was probably with someone less attractive than you. His new girlfriend will likely be less attractive than you, and lets face it, when we hear our ex is dating someone new thats always what we want to know... "is she prettier than me?"
3. And finally, hot guys annoy me with their cockiness and I like to take them down a peg by rejecting them.
Is it Normal to want to sleep with someone less attractive than you?
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I think it's normal. And I don't think it's because you're insecure (everyone is to an extent) and definitley when you're the prettier one, your less attractive partner makes you feel even prettier.
But I for one like to date people less attractive than me for the following reasons:
1. Men typically have low standards. They claim they are all about appearances but when it comes down to it, they go with what they think will get them laid regardless of how pretty (or not) the girl is. This is because they think hot girls are harder to get (because we are). He is so used to having sex with uglies (75% of girls are ugly in my opinion) that he feels lucky when he gets the hot girlfriend. Thus, he spoils you rotten and treats you like a queen because he likes to show you off and wants to keep it that way. Where as, the hotter the guy is, the more hot girls he sleeps with (especially if he has money, etc.) and so it's really nothing special when he gets to bang you and doesn't treat you as nice. (I also like to sleep with super sexy guys but I find them too cocky to seriously date).
2. I like the comments people make when you date someone less attractive than you are. "You are way out of his league." etc. This way, if you break up you basically automatically "win" the break up. He cheated on you? Not likely, but if he did it was probably with someone less attractive than you. His new girlfriend will likely be less attractive than you, and lets face it, when we hear our ex is dating someone new thats always what we want to know... "is she prettier than me?"
3. And finally, hot guys annoy me with their cockiness and I like to take them down a peg by rejecting them.