I think this is normal. I find that I am often repulsed by people who are considered conventionally attractive because a lot of the time they are also egotistical, vain and conceited. Not always, but there is most definitely a correlation there. I think it's normal to be put off by these qualities if you are not a shallow person. 'Average' people have to work harder at developing an appealing personality, and that is what makes a person attractive in my eyes. But there also could be some truth to the comments about you being insecure or wanting the upper hand; I really don't know enough about you to say which is the case.
Is it Normal to want to sleep with someone less attractive than you?
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I think this is normal. I find that I am often repulsed by people who are considered conventionally attractive because a lot of the time they are also egotistical, vain and conceited. Not always, but there is most definitely a correlation there. I think it's normal to be put off by these qualities if you are not a shallow person. 'Average' people have to work harder at developing an appealing personality, and that is what makes a person attractive in my eyes. But there also could be some truth to the comments about you being insecure or wanting the upper hand; I really don't know enough about you to say which is the case.