Is it normal to want to see your girlfriend go with another girl?

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 15 years, and are getting married next year, we have a young child. Between just the 2 of us we have done some pretty outrageous things in the bedroom, but the one thing that turns me on the most, and I dont know why as my girlfriend does anything when the mood takes us ( usually after a lot of alcohol), is to see my girlfriend ( future wife and mother to my child )go with another woman, I would love to to see her naked kissing another girl,and to see her being eaten out and also going down on a girl, I know this sounds strange, but I wouldnt consider this cheating,if anything it makes me want her more.. I just cant get it out of my mind, would things change between us if it ever happened?.... I have even tried to get my gf and one of her friends drunk in the hope it would happen..... I know this is wrong as she is my future wife and the mother of my child but I cant help it, it is my ultimate fantasy.. Help....

Is It Normal?
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  • It's normal, and it isn't wrong. Ask her about it. If she's open to it then go ahead and have fun. If she isn't open to it, I guess you'll have to keep it a fantasy.

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    • That said, if she says no you should completely forget about it. Make sure you don't pressure her if she says no; it'll only make he less likely to go for it.

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  • Group sex is not very intimate so I doubt it will cause any problems between the two of you. I say go for it.

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  • When we have got drunk etc and had that mad crazy sex when anything goes I have asked her to tell me what she would do to another girl, and she has gone along with it, knowing it tunrs me on, but that is when we are out of it,in the e of heat of the moment, I think the only chance we have making it happen is if there is me , my gf and a friend alone and we all get drunk enough when anything can happen, but then, that would present another problem as it would be with someone we know, and it could get out and people find out, its the sort of thing you would like to keep private...

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