I don't understand the whole "break up to go to college" routine. People who do this act like they are NEVER going to see that person again. My wife and I maintained a long-distance relationship for 3 years of college! Did we "see" other people? Sure we did. Nothing serious, and nothing that ever got physical, at least that she has told me and I have told her. I did have one girl that I met along the way that I would have liked to have had a further relationship with, seen where it went, but, that girl had just gotten her heart broken and wasn't ready to commit, and, I still loved my GF (now my wife), so, it worked out, and I have NO regrets!
My wife and I agree that, if you looked all your life, there are probably thousands of people out there in this world you could love, be compatible with. This "soul-mate" stuff is a bunch of crap, or, I should say, there is more than just 1 person out there for you. But, you find one you really love, and, you stick with them!
Shit, when my wife and I were away from each other decades ago, there was no internet, no cell phones, no skype...we wrote LETTERS, by hand, back and forth. My long distance phone bill was HUGE!!! We got to see each other about once or twice a month, on weekends, and, then, there were breaks for summer, winter, spring, so, all in all, we managed. And, trust me, whenever we did meet up, it was like the 4th of July!!!
She was 2 years behind me in school, and was a computer science major. That is a VERY demanding study, and, she focused herself on school, she got straight A's. I graduated and went to work, and trust me, I was TIRED after working all day.
Anyway, you go find this guy, share with him EXACTLY what you shared here. Tell him you were wrong, and then, use all the electronic gizmos out there to stay in touch.
Is it normal to want to see my ex 5-10 years in the future?
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I don't understand the whole "break up to go to college" routine. People who do this act like they are NEVER going to see that person again. My wife and I maintained a long-distance relationship for 3 years of college! Did we "see" other people? Sure we did. Nothing serious, and nothing that ever got physical, at least that she has told me and I have told her. I did have one girl that I met along the way that I would have liked to have had a further relationship with, seen where it went, but, that girl had just gotten her heart broken and wasn't ready to commit, and, I still loved my GF (now my wife), so, it worked out, and I have NO regrets!
My wife and I agree that, if you looked all your life, there are probably thousands of people out there in this world you could love, be compatible with. This "soul-mate" stuff is a bunch of crap, or, I should say, there is more than just 1 person out there for you. But, you find one you really love, and, you stick with them!
Shit, when my wife and I were away from each other decades ago, there was no internet, no cell phones, no skype...we wrote LETTERS, by hand, back and forth. My long distance phone bill was HUGE!!! We got to see each other about once or twice a month, on weekends, and, then, there were breaks for summer, winter, spring, so, all in all, we managed. And, trust me, whenever we did meet up, it was like the 4th of July!!!
She was 2 years behind me in school, and was a computer science major. That is a VERY demanding study, and, she focused herself on school, she got straight A's. I graduated and went to work, and trust me, I was TIRED after working all day.
Anyway, you go find this guy, share with him EXACTLY what you shared here. Tell him you were wrong, and then, use all the electronic gizmos out there to stay in touch.
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It's like De Ja Voo all OVER again!!!!