Is it normal to want to see my boyfriend more

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My boyfriend have dated off and on for 4 years. But, since October 6th 2016 we have been dating and haven't stopped. But we have had so much issues and fights. He has three jobs and were a senior in high school. I see him only 45 minutes a day every week. It honestly doesn't seem enough for me. He never is able to hangout and he isnt romantic anymore. My best friends are far from where I live so I dont have much people. Also I always complain and say something bad about something or him. He also critizces me alot or says somethings bad also.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    7 years ago

    I don't know how keen you are on continuing the relationship, but it doesn't really look like it's worth it.
    If he was very busy, i'd be like, girl, you just wait! but when i read that he criticises or isn't even romantic... well, i think the love isn't there anymore and you are just continuing with it for the sake of it! or because it's always easier because breaking up isn't nice

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  • SpongeBobSquareBants
    6 years ago

    If he is working hard, no. He won't be romantic. He's probably pre-occupied. You need to pick up the slack. You have 45 minutes? Plan a picnic, get a pizza and eat it under the stars. Literally, he might be stressed from work and stuff, put in the effort. If you mean he can be around more, but chooses not to, yeah ditch him.

    As for him criticizing you, don't critique him if you can't take it back. Tell him how he's making you feel, don't be over the top about it, quick and short. 'You make me feel so bad when you say those things.' Done. The situation will now be averted, or you'll dump him for being inconsiderate and not caring about it.

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  • Nerdy58
    6 years ago

    No.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    If it's temporary, until you find more time, it may be worth it. If things are gonna be like this for a long time, it may be a bad thing. Distance is always causing arguments, that's natural. If you can handle them for some time and know for sure that one day this will end, and you love him strong enough to wait that much, then do it. Otherwise, don't

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  • JonathanOo
    7 years ago

    He may not care about you as much as you him. If he can't make time for you or doesn't put in effort no matter what, it's a bad sign. 45 minutes is nothing. I'd want 3 hours a day honestly

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  • satanniggasandpopsicle
    7 years ago

    whats he say about you?

    like i truely wanna know whats going on in this relationship and try to help you

    its normal that you want to see him more

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