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I'm 20 and I've always been attracted to older men. I'm talking anywhere from 30 to 50. Sometimes I just want to fool around with them; I feel like they would really enjoy a nice young body. Is that normal to think that? And also is it normal to act on it?
I don't agree at all with Britton. You don't have to have everything in common to have a good relationship, and you don't have to have ANYTHING in common to have good sex. What you like is what you like, and nobody can tell you it's wrong as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
I'm an older guy (47) who loves younger women. I find them delightfully open-minded, fun, and unspoiled compared with women my own age. . . and I like to be with someone who is young and hot enough for me to physically worship in bed.
The problem for me is that I feel like I can't make the first move on the women I'm interested in, for fear of being creepy. I'm up for a relationship but not clingy or jealous or needy, so if a young woman is interested, she just needs to let me know, and let me know what her boundaries are.
So, do you live in Northern California? I'd love to meet some interested young women! :)
Yes and no...and this is all my personal opinion just to get that out in the open from the get go.
I'm in my late twenties and recently broke things off with my 20 year old girlfriend for complicated reasons. I don't see age as being a huge factor when the gap is no more than 10 years. Once you venture beyond that ~10 year zone it becomes a little strange...what things could somebody with a large age difference have in common? Very little really...I mean yes, you surely could find things in common but its not somehing that could really work in the long run.
Now if you just want to sleep around with old dudes because that's what gets you hot and bothered then by all means, respect your elders' brains out....just don't give em a heart attack ;)