Everyone has their good points and bad points. Nobody is perfect, but did you think about talking to her about what bothers you? Just throwing money at her won't solve the issue. Would you like to see your kid? Do you love your GF despite her issues? I voted it's normal because it's normal to be afraid or unsure of what's next. Having a kid is a big deal. Anyone can have a kid, but not everyone can make a good parent, dad or mom. If anything make sure you're in the kid's life and remember that your girlfriend will still be in yours too when you visit or pick up the kid ... if you leave. Might be good to still take your girlfriend to the doctors, any pregnancy classes etc. even if you break up. People will talk and judge you because you left your GF while she was pregnant.
I'd say try to work on it so you know you've done everything you can and she knows you mean business and are trying. While she's pregnant she'll be very emotional and some women are very sensitive because of their hormones.
is it normal to want to leave my pregnant girlfriend
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Everyone has their good points and bad points. Nobody is perfect, but did you think about talking to her about what bothers you? Just throwing money at her won't solve the issue. Would you like to see your kid? Do you love your GF despite her issues? I voted it's normal because it's normal to be afraid or unsure of what's next. Having a kid is a big deal. Anyone can have a kid, but not everyone can make a good parent, dad or mom. If anything make sure you're in the kid's life and remember that your girlfriend will still be in yours too when you visit or pick up the kid ... if you leave. Might be good to still take your girlfriend to the doctors, any pregnancy classes etc. even if you break up. People will talk and judge you because you left your GF while she was pregnant.
I'd say try to work on it so you know you've done everything you can and she knows you mean business and are trying. While she's pregnant she'll be very emotional and some women are very sensitive because of their hormones.