Is it normal to want to leave but cant?

how about trying counseling first.

I think you two need a mediator.

Work it out, don't just quit on Ur marriage.
**Good Luck**

Divorce the prick, then let custody go to him. Yes I know it'll be difficult, but if you can't support your children right now, put it off on him until you can. Not to sound cold, but if all goes well your kids won't remember a thing anyway.

Thank you all for your comments. We have begun going to church and are going to try to work it out.

Besides, let me add that kids arent stupid and they wont be happy if you guys arent happy.

Leave him.
your kids will be fine.
I would know.
My dad has been through many divorces and so has my mom.
I turned out fine. =]

You should try all the above suggestions, but ultimately a happier you equals a happier better mom. Think about this when making any future decisions for you and your kids.

Leave

So I was in a similar situation and wad feeling the same way. But maybe you should try reading dr Laura. Her book proper care and feeding of marriage is extremely insightful and a huge help if not life (or at least relationship) altering. I didn't want to read it at first either I'm not even a fan of her really. But I finally did and am glad. It has made a huge difference and just reminds people of a few basic life rules really I think get forgotten. If you really want to try for your kids and your family you'll read it. Or something to that effect. Good luck!!!

Separate u can't spend ur life unhappy and miserable because your not helping ur kids that way it will rub off on them go and behappy your kids will be fine do what makes u happy

*seperate