I'm 35. Any woman my age who would allow a 19 year old boy to move in with her and to keep him as a toy for a little while is a bitch.
What she did was wrong and I'm guessing the real reason she broke up with you is because she knew it, but of course she's not going to say that to you. Mostly because it's too easy for you to refute simply by saying you don't feel violated (which she did do), but partly because nobody wants to admit to being morally in the wrong (which is what she was).
It's okay to feel very angry at her for what she did, even to the point of becoming homicidal. But if it's making *you* upset to feel that way, then it's time to address *your* feelings as something separate from her and her issues. By this point, it's not *her* that you're upset about, it's how you *feel*. Thankfully, that's something you can work on.
Is it normal to want to kill your ex?
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I'm 35. Any woman my age who would allow a 19 year old boy to move in with her and to keep him as a toy for a little while is a bitch.
What she did was wrong and I'm guessing the real reason she broke up with you is because she knew it, but of course she's not going to say that to you. Mostly because it's too easy for you to refute simply by saying you don't feel violated (which she did do), but partly because nobody wants to admit to being morally in the wrong (which is what she was).
It's okay to feel very angry at her for what she did, even to the point of becoming homicidal. But if it's making *you* upset to feel that way, then it's time to address *your* feelings as something separate from her and her issues. By this point, it's not *her* that you're upset about, it's how you *feel*. Thankfully, that's something you can work on.