Be patient and the negativity will vanish soon enough.
Don't feed it with more negative thoughts, it's not good for you or others around you.
Think to yourself that "I hope she's OK, I hope she's enjoying herself and i'll find some other woman to love"
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I hated my ex too, like really hate here :- )
But then , years after, I suddenly realized that everything that happened in my life was my fault. And then, one night when I saw her I tried to love her as if she was a new person with no past, as if it was my responsibility and guess what? All the negativity dissapeared, all the attachment dissapeared and I felt stupid for all the bad things I had told her. It was nice to see her laughing and smiling around me after all the "WAR" that was between us. We were like two new people. Because I changed, not because I forced her to change.
I love her now. But i'm not attached to her and we are not together. And now I know how to really love because I know it's all my fault what happened.
Forget her, but from now on imagine your new girlfriends as a reflection of your own emotions so whenever something bad happens, think if it is your fault to.
Is it normal to want to kill your ex?
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Be patient and the negativity will vanish soon enough.
Don't feed it with more negative thoughts, it's not good for you or others around you.
Think to yourself that "I hope she's OK, I hope she's enjoying herself and i'll find some other woman to love"
...
I hated my ex too, like really hate here :- )
But then , years after, I suddenly realized that everything that happened in my life was my fault. And then, one night when I saw her I tried to love her as if she was a new person with no past, as if it was my responsibility and guess what? All the negativity dissapeared, all the attachment dissapeared and I felt stupid for all the bad things I had told her. It was nice to see her laughing and smiling around me after all the "WAR" that was between us. We were like two new people. Because I changed, not because I forced her to change.
I love her now. But i'm not attached to her and we are not together. And now I know how to really love because I know it's all my fault what happened.
Forget her, but from now on imagine your new girlfriends as a reflection of your own emotions so whenever something bad happens, think if it is your fault to.
Just my advice, works for me.