If someone says they have never wanted to hurt someone then they are lying. Everyone has had those thoughts at some point, and many perfectly sane people have even taken it one step further and actually hurt someone, if the situation was extreme enough.
I once punched a woman in the face. Back when my husband and I were dating, we went to a party and this crazy drunk woman was really throwing herself at my husband. He ignored her and kept trying to avoid her but she was so drunk that she didn't seem to notice or care. Eventually she sat herself down on his knee and tried to kiss him, and he pushed her away and told her to fuck off. She responded by screaming that he'd hit her, so I grabbed her by the hair, pulled her off him, punched her and then told her to stay the fuck away from him. She lunged for me and missed because she was so drunk, then her friend told me I was a nasty bitch and took her home.
I think many sane people would have reacted the way that I did. Wanting to hurt someone doesn't necessarily make you crazy or bad. The world isn't that black and white.
Is it normal to want to hurt someone else?
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If someone says they have never wanted to hurt someone then they are lying. Everyone has had those thoughts at some point, and many perfectly sane people have even taken it one step further and actually hurt someone, if the situation was extreme enough.
I once punched a woman in the face. Back when my husband and I were dating, we went to a party and this crazy drunk woman was really throwing herself at my husband. He ignored her and kept trying to avoid her but she was so drunk that she didn't seem to notice or care. Eventually she sat herself down on his knee and tried to kiss him, and he pushed her away and told her to fuck off. She responded by screaming that he'd hit her, so I grabbed her by the hair, pulled her off him, punched her and then told her to stay the fuck away from him. She lunged for me and missed because she was so drunk, then her friend told me I was a nasty bitch and took her home.
I think many sane people would have reacted the way that I did. Wanting to hurt someone doesn't necessarily make you crazy or bad. The world isn't that black and white.