Is it normal to want to hurt people during sex?

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Sex is cool but it is so much better when some pain is involved. I like hurting my partners during sex and I get incredibly turned on when I hear them cry out in pain. I also like seeing them cry, especially when I am with a girl. Don't get too freaked out because they consent and I let them hurt me too, but I always get this strong urge to push them furthur and furthur each time. I want to make them bleed sometimes but I am afraid that if I push too far no one will want to be with me anymore. IIN?

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  • GreyWulfen
    9 years ago | pl

    It's called sadism.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    This is how most serial killers start out. Ted Bundy blamed that his porn addiction drove him to wanting to see and do more and more deviant activities until he ultimately had to start killing and raping women to get his "fix."

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  • healthy-omnipotence
    9 years ago | pl

    No, it's pretty normal :) Having sadistic feelings during sex is pretty normal, just like how it's pretty normal to have masochistic thoughts during sex, like I do.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago | pl

    I think in the future this will be used as evidence.

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