Is it normal to want to hug your girlfriend and cry on her shoulder?

Self-respecting women prefer well educated intelligent men; if you finish college then you'll prove yourself to be that.

I'm fortunate enough to have a loving girlfriend who appreciates compassion and the fact that men have emotions too, but I can still appreciate how you feel as I once felt that way.

I've proven my worth to my girlfriend and she knows that I'll be able to support her through whatever crisis she goes through, hence she's more forgiving of me when I make mistakes or break-down in tears.

Prove your worth, finish college, slim-up, get a good well-paying job, then you'll find someone who values you as an equal.

I'll tell you what!!! Most women around your age or a few years younger has worked hard to get herself a career!!(If she's worth it)So if you want a good girl I recommend you finish college and get youself a lady ;) You know deep inside a woman wants a man who can either be her equal, or support her. She doesn't want someone who's going to give in when life gets tough! So you stick to it and you finish college, cause you can find a girl and raise a family with a nice job. Think how unwanted a guy OR girl would be if they were over weight, living in their parents house, no eductaion? YOU CAN DO IT! Just keep trying, it's all worth it in the end! Once you move out and have that career, you'll be set to find your special lady and get away from your mom. When you start to drag yourself down, just reminf youself that you are doing this for a reason! Good luck :)

Yeah, it is very normal for someone to want qualities in a mate that they did not get from their parents while growing up and I know a lot of women think this is total bullshit, but men can often be just as emotionally needy and sensitive as women. Normal.

What you're feeling is valid, but wanting someone to completely rely on to build up your self confidence and self worth is extremely unhealthy and the majority of the time you'd just be setting yourself up to be knocked down. You need to love yourself and work towards graduating for your own self-fulfillment, which also goes for losing weight. Don't do it because you think it'll help you find someone; do it so you're more secure in yourself. You do sound intelligent and the type of partner you described would need to be intelligent too, meaning no matter what you look like, if you 'click' mentally, the physical aspects will be secondary.

Aww..that's so sweet nothing wrong

FUCK A PANSY HAS ESCAPED KILL IT WITH FIRES

Try internet dating if you're worried about women judging you on your appearance. Plus, if a girl sees your passionate side first, she will often sacrifice other, previously important attributes she wants in a mate (Rich, fit, etc.). But only if she is romantic (like yourself)- which isn't necessarily a bad thing, your greatest chance of happiness in a relationship is to find someone with personality traits, and values like your own.

No, That's Gay.
Man Up.

(according to My Girlfriend)

Then she pointed out, "how many times have YOU cried on MY shoulder.

And she punched me.

We're 27.