Do you enjoy lolicon/shotacon? Have you ever just once tried to find some family naturist online? Has the thought "mm I bet she can make me hard" ever occurred while walking through, say a store and you spy a pretty young girl?
What if a young girl comes up to you and says "Daddy/Brother/Uncle/Onii-chan, can you teach me what making love is like?" What about if she's still interested after you explain everything to her, even that it will probably hurt very badly. Would you still be able to resist?
Do you think there is a difference between sharing love with a child, and doing sexual things to cause harm?
See, there are multiple types of people out there. Some are indeed attracted to children, and would even act upon that attraction. But they prefer it to be a "more than once" type of thing, maybe a close family friend, or even their own children. And there are others out there that prefer it to be a one night stand type of thing. A rougher, more stoic approach to things that involves making the older person feel good only. Still others that would prefer to take a more passive role, and only watch the younger person do the actions, possibly with a toy or animal, but the older person has no involvement.
Before you ask if it is normal, give it a long thought about what type (I only listed 3 to keep it brief) you are.
Biologically 9-13 is the start of female puberty, and as a male it is your "job" to watch for signs of the start of puberty. IE pubic hair. (The only reason we have pubic hair is to visually show when we are old enough to have children). There are cultures in the world that allow girls to start mating before they get pubic hair, so as not to waste a period. (usually around 10) Yes the girls are often married to older men (30's) but the thought is that she is to produce as many children as possible, and a period is a waste of life, so she starts having sex before so as not to waste her first period, or any there-after. So biologically your attraction is actually normal. Morally/Culturally/spiritually people question adult's being attracted to kids, but those are based on laws/rules that people created. (More opinions really) So from a biological standpoint, you are relatively normal.
There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.
To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.
There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..
You are so vagrantly wrong on everything you have just said. Do not promote this ideology you have no data or scientific proof to back this up. It is a completely false concept that doesnt take in psychological or physical maturity children. You and OP need a psycholgogical evaluation by a trained clinician and you also need to take a psychology class and a class on human deveolpment so you can truly yunderstand the true detramental impact you have on a person by subjecting them to your fantasies. More then likely this comes from eitheer a schizoid or antisocial personality disorder. your in ability to emphatize with children and truly ynderstand them is appparent of this.
is it normal to want to have sex with girls 9 to 13 years old?
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Do you enjoy lolicon/shotacon? Have you ever just once tried to find some family naturist online? Has the thought "mm I bet she can make me hard" ever occurred while walking through, say a store and you spy a pretty young girl?
What if a young girl comes up to you and says "Daddy/Brother/Uncle/Onii-chan, can you teach me what making love is like?" What about if she's still interested after you explain everything to her, even that it will probably hurt very badly. Would you still be able to resist?
Do you think there is a difference between sharing love with a child, and doing sexual things to cause harm?
See, there are multiple types of people out there. Some are indeed attracted to children, and would even act upon that attraction. But they prefer it to be a "more than once" type of thing, maybe a close family friend, or even their own children. And there are others out there that prefer it to be a one night stand type of thing. A rougher, more stoic approach to things that involves making the older person feel good only. Still others that would prefer to take a more passive role, and only watch the younger person do the actions, possibly with a toy or animal, but the older person has no involvement.
Before you ask if it is normal, give it a long thought about what type (I only listed 3 to keep it brief) you are.
Biologically 9-13 is the start of female puberty, and as a male it is your "job" to watch for signs of the start of puberty. IE pubic hair. (The only reason we have pubic hair is to visually show when we are old enough to have children). There are cultures in the world that allow girls to start mating before they get pubic hair, so as not to waste a period. (usually around 10) Yes the girls are often married to older men (30's) but the thought is that she is to produce as many children as possible, and a period is a waste of life, so she starts having sex before so as not to waste her first period, or any there-after. So biologically your attraction is actually normal. Morally/Culturally/spiritually people question adult's being attracted to kids, but those are based on laws/rules that people created. (More opinions really) So from a biological standpoint, you are relatively normal.
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Really mature reply.
Check out my question:
There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.
To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.
There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..
You are so vagrantly wrong on everything you have just said. Do not promote this ideology you have no data or scientific proof to back this up. It is a completely false concept that doesnt take in psychological or physical maturity children. You and OP need a psycholgogical evaluation by a trained clinician and you also need to take a psychology class and a class on human deveolpment so you can truly yunderstand the true detramental impact you have on a person by subjecting them to your fantasies. More then likely this comes from eitheer a schizoid or antisocial personality disorder. your in ability to emphatize with children and truly ynderstand them is appparent of this.