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I have been wanting to have sex with underage girl for a long time, is it normal to have these irresistible urges. I try to scratch the thought but there's something about the young body that makes me just so hard.
I don't know how normal sexual thoughts about children are, because it's not something most people are comfortable talking about (or even conducting studies about). If they were just thoughts, I wouldn't be too worried.
What worries me here is the word "irresistible". As long as these thoughts are inside your own head, and you're not acting on them, they're not hurting anybody. But if you feel like these thoughts are compulsions, or you think you might act on them, I urge you to talk to a psychiatrist about this as soon as you possibly can. Get help before you hurt somebody.
relax bro nothing wrong with being attracted to them dont worry. other people just dont know and go woth society. Psychologicly speaking you didnt do no nothing wrong.
As long as you don't act on these thoughts, you're not a bad person. For your own sake and for the sake of innocent children whose bodies no one as the right to use for their own pleasure, it would be best to talk to someone professional so you can get to the root of why you feel this and you can move on with your life and be happy.
weeell maybe you should like get a sex toy to calm those urges. good thing you dint do any thing stupid.
I understand why I am getting called A sick fuck I don't choose to be attracted to them and like I have previously said I would never act upon them which for you uneducated people sorts me out from the sick fucks labeled pedofiles that is why I found a site where I can openly express my thoughts and get help without ruining my personal life so thanks to those who posted helpful comments
Do you enjoy lolicon/shotacon? Have you ever just once tried to find some family naturist online? Has the thought "mm I bet she can make me hard" ever occurred while walking through, say a store and you spy a pretty young girl?
What if a young girl comes up to you and says "Daddy/Brother/Uncle/Onii-chan, can you teach me what making love is like?" What about if she's still interested after you explain everything to her, even that it will probably hurt very badly. Would you still be able to resist?
Do you think there is a difference between sharing love with a child, and doing sexual things to cause harm?
See, there are multiple types of people out there. Some are indeed attracted to children, and would even act upon that attraction. But they prefer it to be a "more than once" type of thing, maybe a close family friend, or even their own children. And there are others out there that prefer it to be a one night stand type of thing. A rougher, more stoic approach to things that involves making the older person feel good only. Still others that would prefer to take a more passive role, and only watch the younger person do the actions, possibly with a toy or animal, but the older person has no involvement.
Before you ask if it is normal, give it a long thought about what type (I only listed 3 to keep it brief) you are.
Biologically 9-13 is the start of female puberty, and as a male it is your "job" to watch for signs of the start of puberty. IE pubic hair. (The only reason we have pubic hair is to visually show when we are old enough to have children). There are cultures in the world that allow girls to start mating before they get pubic hair, so as not to waste a period. (usually around 10) Yes the girls are often married to older men (30's) but the thought is that she is to produce as many children as possible, and a period is a waste of life, so she starts having sex before so as not to waste her first period, or any there-after. So biologically your attraction is actually normal. Morally/Culturally/spiritually people question adult's being attracted to kids, but those are based on laws/rules that people created. (More opinions really) So from a biological standpoint, you are relatively normal.
Really mature reply.
Check out my question:
There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.
To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.
There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..
You are so vagrantly wrong on everything you have just said. Do not promote this ideology you have no data or scientific proof to back this up. It is a completely false concept that doesnt take in psychological or physical maturity children. You and OP need a psycholgogical evaluation by a trained clinician and you also need to take a psychology class and a class on human deveolpment so you can truly yunderstand the true detramental impact you have on a person by subjecting them to your fantasies. More then likely this comes from eitheer a schizoid or antisocial personality disorder. your in ability to emphatize with children and truly ynderstand them is appparent of this.
Psychoanalyst, the lovely thing about the human mind is that of its plasicity. The ability for your brain to shift neurons into different places and recreate your chemical and electrical signals. You must not indulge in masterbation of these thoughts or acts. Everytime you do you build the neurological path way that these thoughts exist in. The more you do the more dopamine and serotonin your body will release to these ideas. The more the need for you to act on them will grow. The same way a normal sex addict needs more and more erotic things you will too. You do not want to destroyy the innocence of children, they are only children now they will be adults and you will ruin their experience by accting up on these feeligns.
I have had this thought several times and it give me an erotic sensation in my groin I have seen a few pict of little girls having penis insertions and I was so hard I was up all night it just wouldn't go down. I know it's not really normal but I couldn't stop it from happening
As long as you don't act on these thoughts, you're not a bad person. For your own sake and for the sake of innocent children whose bodies no one as the right to use for their own pleasure, it would be best to talk to someone professional so you can get to the root of why you feel this and you can move on with your life and be happy.
And please if you find these sexual images of underage girls, report them to the internet watch foundation, you can report anonymously so you wont get in trouble but please girls are more often then not forced into this, please help innocent children who are being harmed and report them
Heyy there you arnt sick at all young girls can be very attractive, and simply cock tease :)))
^no you are just a sick deviant who has no concept of the implication of his thoughts and actions. They are children not able to comprehend or percieve the repercussions or implications of their actions hence why we put them in school and socialize them with parents.
Not normal at all. Never act on these urges ! Maybe, you should try to seek professional help to see what could be causing this?
If this would be considered "normal" then essentially everything we knew about the subject would be turned upside-down. It's classified as a mental illness, after all.
But you know, I'm actually kind of surprised with these results; there have been similar entries on this site with unbelievably high normalcy ratings.
It must be somewhat normal because so many paedophiles exist, but if you act on those desires with children, that's really fucked up. Try watching porn where the girls (18+) look very young or something.
I will never act upon such fantasies I know its wrong I just find myself attracted to them and it bothers me also. :( as for irresistible maybe too strong of a word choice I just find them highly attractive, as for children in general I love them and look foward to having my own someday
Your attraction is more to preteens than children.
Check out my question:
There's this girl that I've sort of developed feelings for recently. Our families have been friends for a long time, but I've never really thought of her as like any thing other than a little sister until recently. She's going through puberty right now, and has gotten very pretty lately. She was always really mature, nice, and smart and really the type of girl that I like, but there's a big age gap between us- I'm 20 and she's 12. I feel really really bad for feeling about her that way, but I can't stop thinking about her lately.
To be honest I'm just a regular guy, most people would say I'm decently attractive, and pretty easy going, but I've honestly never had a girlfriend. I've always been too busy or just never meet the right girl. Throughout middle school and high school many of the girls I knew were really mean and would often tease,spread rumors ,etc... Now in college its still similar- many of the girls I meet are pretty shallow. It's always either the girls I meet have a good personality but not physically attractive to me (guess that makes me shallow too) or vice versa. I know nothing would ever happen between me and her, and she probably doesn't feel the same way, but I still can't help but imagine what it would have been like if I were her age going to the same school as her, or just taking her somewhere on a date like to the movies or carnival or something. I'm not sure, I usually don't feel this way about people and feel really bad that I feel this way about her but I can't stop thinking about her.
There seems to be a couple of us in similar situations...You can find my question by searching "Is it normal to like younger girls?" and read all the responses and details on the post after finding it, I'm curious as to what you think..