Is it normal to want to have sex with a stranger?

I knew my husband for four years until recently getting married about a year ago. We are happily married, one 4 year old and a baby on the way.

I only just recently stopped working a normal 40 hour work week due to maternity, but he works A LOT, about 55 hours a week in the restaurant industry. So we have sex when we can lately.

Lately, for a while now, I can't help but fantasizing about having sex with other men. Like I just think about how hot it would be to have mind blowing sex with someone that made me melt. Is this normal? Is it normal that I love my husband more than anything, but I'm craving something steamier in the bedroom that I fear he may not be able to produce???

(I'm 27...if this helps...lol)

Is It Normal?
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  • your feelings are normal and your hormones are normal, but they are in conflict. do not make quick decisions about whether to fuck new men, take your time and think carefully...good luck!

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  • Do you like it up the ass?

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  • Would you feel guilty if you did it? (You ought not to) Then go ahead. Otherwise it will eat away at you. I've never been unfaithful to my husband, but I slept with many men when I was in my early 20s. I don't rule out infidelity one day though, but for now, it's not for me, but it probably is for you.

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  • From what I understand, it's a common fantasy.

    You'd be amazed what fantasies are common...

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  • Where are you. We can hook up.

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  • Probably the pregnancy hormones talking.

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