If you are over your partying stage thats fine to want a family.. just don't jump into it and find out later that you think the baby took away your time to be you and live your youth (especially not being 21 yet and having the chance to go to bars and clubs) because then you will resent the child and/or your boyfriend for it. If you are the stay at home type and don't think you will want to live your life for you at 21 then go for it.. just remember that after a baby comes nothing you do is for you anymore, it all revolves around the child. Kiss going out and partying goodbye because you won't have the time or the money.
Is it normal to want to have a baby so young?
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If you are over your partying stage thats fine to want a family.. just don't jump into it and find out later that you think the baby took away your time to be you and live your youth (especially not being 21 yet and having the chance to go to bars and clubs) because then you will resent the child and/or your boyfriend for it. If you are the stay at home type and don't think you will want to live your life for you at 21 then go for it.. just remember that after a baby comes nothing you do is for you anymore, it all revolves around the child. Kiss going out and partying goodbye because you won't have the time or the money.