Perhaps what you are looking for is license to mess around with other women. If she bites on the freedom to engage in infidelity, not only does that make reciprocity more acceptable for you, but it also tests out her commitment to you. I wouldnt say to her, "Its ok, I would say, please just be honest with me about what you are feeling" and cross the bridge when you get there. Also, you are inviting something that suggests impunity on her part, is that really the way you feel?
Is it normal to want to give your Gf freedom?
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Perhaps what you are looking for is license to mess around with other women. If she bites on the freedom to engage in infidelity, not only does that make reciprocity more acceptable for you, but it also tests out her commitment to you. I wouldnt say to her, "Its ok, I would say, please just be honest with me about what you are feeling" and cross the bridge when you get there. Also, you are inviting something that suggests impunity on her part, is that really the way you feel?