IIN to want to fulfill my dying friend's wish?

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  • I've never dated a long time friend before, they seem like a sibling to me after a while. Or a matter of the fact, never even dated a boy.

    I like him but not like-like, with love and attraction. But that would be ideal if both of us shared mutual feelings.

    Since primary school. And okay I'll remember that.

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    • ohh ok

      :)

      ohhhh thats a long time then

      well you can always start dating if you want to, nothing wrong with that, just however your feeling towards him

      just all up to you

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      • Okay I think about it very carefully. Since he won't be around in the future.

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        • lol that is true even though it sounds harsh XD haha

          sounds like a prank though or something, like hes pretending to have cancer to get some vagina or something lol

          but im sure he really has cancer, im sure he might just be trying to get sex out of you since he finds it like a convenient excuse to get something out of it

          i mean i cant say for sure though cause you two have known each other for a long time

          his feelings for you could be real, like romantically, but you think if it was romance, then why has he waited until he just got cancer until he tried something with you?

          maybe he was too afraid to ask before or something

          like i said, im not in his head, but i would at least give a relationship a shot if you want

          if you feel uncomfortable about it then you dont have to do it

          do you know why his girlfriend left him? maybe he was trying to get sex from her maybe??

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          • It's not meant to be, I'm just trying to be realistic. It's gonna take a miracle now for his health. He even gave up on himself, and I can't keep his hope up anymore, so now I'm starting to sound like him.

            Must be an elaborate prank with all the doctor and hospital visits and getting his family and friends involved.

            Lol if I had a vagina, I'd probably date him. But I'm attracted to girls. Sure I've found some guys attractive but I never felt like dating one.

            Yeah he confessed to alot of things now and seems like he has had those feelings for a long time. But I'm not sure since he's been hiding them for so long. Yeah he said he didn't tell me before because he thought it would ruin our friendship since I never dated a guy before, and look like I showed no interest in them either.

            I'm considering it now hanging out with him in a dating matter wouldn't be so bad. Who knows maybe my feelings will get deeper. But sleeping with him right now, don't think I could. And I'll miss him even more, but at least he'll be happy.

            Not sure but after about two weeks when she found out he had cancer, she left him and cut off contact from the both of us. She's mad at me too but I don't know why.

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            • Hmmm

              Theres hope for him. You two shouldnt give up

              People have outlived cancer.

              I even know someone who survived cancer

              Its definately possible.

              Hey I dont know the details haha

              Whatttttttt :o your a guy?!?!!? holy crap lol i thought you were a girl

              It probaley is then. He probaley tried to use the cancer thing to get sex from her

              Not saying he did, but theres obviously gotta be a reason why she broke up with him

              Im guessing most likely he tried to get sex. Just saying. I doubt she would dump him because he has cancer.

              If anything (I would think) she would want to be there for him

              Oh wait, Im thinking it might be because he told her, he wanted to dump her because he mightve wanted to try and do stuff with you!

              And so shes mad at you because of that? Even though I dont know why she would be mad at you, its not like you had anything to do with his decision

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              • Okay, I'll try to be more hopeful, better to enjoy spending time with him then dwelling in sadness and depression.

                Even in it's late stages? But then again It's possible, he got about a 40% chance of survival.

                Lol sorry should have been more clear in my post.

                I was really surprised when she left him. He wouldn't tell me why.

                That makes sense but I hope I wasn't the reason, he would be happier now if he still had her. Unless he really didn't love her.

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