IIN to want to fulfill my dying friend's wish?

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  • Okay, I just feel guilty that I can't get my self to do it.
    I hope staying by his side is enough for him.
    He's really scared of dying alone.

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    • You dont have to do it though

      Well I mean you could say you two could get in a relationship, and if things go well then maybe.

      But of course being by his side is good enough :) You dont have to have sex with him. Its your body, not his no matter what.

      Thats why I said your choice, I dont know how long you've known him either. But the feeling is definately up to you.

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      • I've never dated a long time friend before, they seem like a sibling to me after a while. Or a matter of the fact, never even dated a boy.

        I like him but not like-like, with love and attraction. But that would be ideal if both of us shared mutual feelings.

        Since primary school. And okay I'll remember that.

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        • ohh ok

          :)

          ohhhh thats a long time then

          well you can always start dating if you want to, nothing wrong with that, just however your feeling towards him

          just all up to you

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          • Okay I think about it very carefully. Since he won't be around in the future.

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            • lol that is true even though it sounds harsh XD haha

              sounds like a prank though or something, like hes pretending to have cancer to get some vagina or something lol

              but im sure he really has cancer, im sure he might just be trying to get sex out of you since he finds it like a convenient excuse to get something out of it

              i mean i cant say for sure though cause you two have known each other for a long time

              his feelings for you could be real, like romantically, but you think if it was romance, then why has he waited until he just got cancer until he tried something with you?

              maybe he was too afraid to ask before or something

              like i said, im not in his head, but i would at least give a relationship a shot if you want

              if you feel uncomfortable about it then you dont have to do it

              do you know why his girlfriend left him? maybe he was trying to get sex from her maybe??

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              • It's not meant to be, I'm just trying to be realistic. It's gonna take a miracle now for his health. He even gave up on himself, and I can't keep his hope up anymore, so now I'm starting to sound like him.

                Must be an elaborate prank with all the doctor and hospital visits and getting his family and friends involved.

                Lol if I had a vagina, I'd probably date him. But I'm attracted to girls. Sure I've found some guys attractive but I never felt like dating one.

                Yeah he confessed to alot of things now and seems like he has had those feelings for a long time. But I'm not sure since he's been hiding them for so long. Yeah he said he didn't tell me before because he thought it would ruin our friendship since I never dated a guy before, and look like I showed no interest in them either.

                I'm considering it now hanging out with him in a dating matter wouldn't be so bad. Who knows maybe my feelings will get deeper. But sleeping with him right now, don't think I could. And I'll miss him even more, but at least he'll be happy.

                Not sure but after about two weeks when she found out he had cancer, she left him and cut off contact from the both of us. She's mad at me too but I don't know why.

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