Is it normal to want to finger my boyfriends ass?
I've been with my boyfriend for five months, and we have a healthy and comfortable sex life. I've always enjoyed ass play because I mean, come on, it's just added pleasure to what I'm already experiencing vaginally. I've always wanted to give that same pleasure to him but he thinks it's gay if I insert even just a finger. How do I explain that it's only homosexual if it's two males together, and if we did those things it's just a man and a woman exploring their sexuality together?