Is it normal to want to finger my boyfriends ass?

I've been with my boyfriend for five months, and we have a healthy and comfortable sex life. I've always enjoyed ass play because I mean, come on, it's just added pleasure to what I'm already experiencing vaginally. I've always wanted to give that same pleasure to him but he thinks it's gay if I insert even just a finger. How do I explain that it's only homosexual if it's two males together, and if we did those things it's just a man and a woman exploring their sexuality together?

Is It Normal?
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  • kindly explain that you are a female and therefore anything sexual you do with him is straight and not gay

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  • Is your bf the guy who posted "IIN that my gf is trying to invade my butt"?

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  • Damn I wish my wife would talk to you and get some ideas

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  • Why do some men thing a woman playing with their arse is gay? It's the most basic misunderstanding of what homosexuality is! I think you need a new boyfriend with a fully working brain.

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  • fingering a guy's ass is perfectly normal and healthy. it's a scientific fact that a guy's g-spot is located in the anal region which is around the same place as the prostate which is super sensitive and if stimulated can get a guy to cum much harder and in massive amounts. i think it would be super sexy if a girl did that to me. your boyfriend doesn't know how lucky he is to have a girl like you who is open to experimenting.

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  • It's not abnormal. I had a few lady friends in the past who liked to finger my ass and even use small toys in my ass. I'm not gay, but I didn't mind since it gave them pleasure... and the more pleasure they had, the more I had.

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  • I love it. Finger his ass and sniff ur fingers. Smell is so hot to turn on

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  • You should try what I did, give him a super sloppy blow job, so sloppy that your spit is completely soaking him and your hands. Then start rubbing his taint, then slip a finger in while still giving him head and rubbing his taint....before you know it, he will be begging you for two fingers.

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  • Tell him gay guys like their cock sucked too, is he gay because he likes his sucked?

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  • You can talk to him, but most men would think its a gay act. Personally, I've fingered my ass since I was a teenager. Its not something I always do, but sometimes I'm in the mood for it. I've even let my wife finger my ass.

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