Is it normal to want to end your life because of a secret

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Is it normal to get the urge to end your life because it don't matter how hot I am or how well I take of myself I can't get back to how things use to be with my husband.
He cheated I did not came close still didn't.
Trust and sex can never be the same I'm always thinking maybe that other woman was better than I could ever be.

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  • Rihyae
    7 years ago

    He broke your trust.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    No. Your husband just sounds like a piece of shit. He cheated on you. HE'S at fault here. Not you.

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    • Curiousme1981
      7 years ago

      Thanks!

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        yup :)

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  • Jujudog
    7 years ago

    this trolling post didn't quite work out, did it, OP?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    No don't kill yourself kill your relationship with fire.

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    • Jujudog
      7 years ago

      Hey Vik, whats the obsession with fire all of a sudden? Is it some Viking Fire Holiday?

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        I like his new thang!

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        • Jujudog
          7 years ago

          I concur

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          • Jujudog
            7 years ago

            A spud theme day!
            Legend!

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      • Terence_the_viking
        7 years ago

        I do theme days heheh.

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        • Jujudog
          7 years ago

          Sounds interesting. I'm descended from the Normans though. How do you feel about that?

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  • Gspyder
    7 years ago

    Sounds like some marriage counseling is needed. He broke your trust and you (rightfully so) feel betrayed but if you're going to stay together you need help coping with it

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  • Somkin76
    7 years ago

    It really depends on your relationship sex does not always mean love I've never had the desire to have sex with other women and my wife has always been all I need but she has had a couple of Affairs I know they were just strictly sex and it doesn't bother me see what you got in your relationship doesn't revolve around sex or love will you always come home to you

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Why are you still with the that cheating piece of shit? You're torturing yourself by not dumping him. If you don't wanna dump him then at least get some counseling.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      I have a baby with him.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Hmm... find out if there are shelters near you, and if there's any place where you can get free legal advice.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          I have a really good job I can move out and hack it on my own financially and more but concerned bout him taking my baby

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            Get a good lawyer.

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  • Ass_gas
    7 years ago

    Be sure to read romance novels and frig off. At least you can have a happy vagina no matter what.

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    • Curiousme1981
      7 years ago

      Lmaaaaaaoo okay will do

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  • Paigiepoo
    7 years ago

    The idea of killing yourself has so much creative outlets. Knowing that you are not going to kill yourself..... Try to tap into that , for positive... Personal results. It may take a few years, there is only 60 seconds in a minute

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    If your in this much misery you should cut him loose and move on. Once trust has been broken its almost impossible to get back I know a couple thats been married more than 20 years and they have been miserable for most of it becos neither 1 will end it. I'm not clear on all the detail of what took place but neither 1 trusts the other and its baggage that just will not ever go away. I'm sure you can do better for yourself and you deserve happiness not suicide. You need to take that option off the list and if you can't you need to get counselling or call a suicide hotline and talk to someone. Just please don't do anything to hurt yourself its the kind of mistake you can only make once and I promise you its a mistake.

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