Joybird, I respectfully disagree with you. Have you ever heard of women on the news that are in a bad situation with children then just " snap". I honestly believe that happy, healthy mothers rear happy, healthy children. She needs to do what makes her happy so her children can be happy. I can give good advice on this subject because I got married when I was 16 and my then husband was 23. We had 3 children together. He started doing drugs and my feelings changed for him after 5 years of marriage I left him and found an older man I am now 23 and he'll be 41 in June. He is stable and he is great with my kids and we have a son together and a girl on the way now. We are a hundred times more compatible than me and my ex were. I am so glad that I left that unhappy marriage and I feel the decision that I made to make myself happy has really made the kids happier. I know that my circumstance is somewhat different but by me leaving a bad marriage it opened the door to a better and happier life for my children and I. I had doubts at first but now looking back I don't regret for one second the choice I made. Ultimately, listen to your heart and spirit and let those lead your path. Follow your gut instincts.
Awwww..that's so sweet. I feel like I willmess everything up for them. I like the sound of ur story its very inspiring. Thanx for the advice..! Very appreciated
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Joybird, I respectfully disagree with you. Have you ever heard of women on the news that are in a bad situation with children then just " snap". I honestly believe that happy, healthy mothers rear happy, healthy children. She needs to do what makes her happy so her children can be happy. I can give good advice on this subject because I got married when I was 16 and my then husband was 23. We had 3 children together. He started doing drugs and my feelings changed for him after 5 years of marriage I left him and found an older man I am now 23 and he'll be 41 in June. He is stable and he is great with my kids and we have a son together and a girl on the way now. We are a hundred times more compatible than me and my ex were. I am so glad that I left that unhappy marriage and I feel the decision that I made to make myself happy has really made the kids happier. I know that my circumstance is somewhat different but by me leaving a bad marriage it opened the door to a better and happier life for my children and I. I had doubts at first but now looking back I don't regret for one second the choice I made. Ultimately, listen to your heart and spirit and let those lead your path. Follow your gut instincts.
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Awwww..that's so sweet. I feel like I willmess everything up for them. I like the sound of ur story its very inspiring. Thanx for the advice..! Very appreciated