Great advice, Joybird. It really needed to be said.
The best answer isn't always the answer that sounds nice and reassuring and sometimes the best answer doesn't solve the problem but the best answer is THE best answer =/ I'd like to say divorce and go live a happy life, but the reality is, being married and not entirely happy sounds much better than being a single mum with four young children, even if the custody, child support and alimony hearings work out. Four children... good god I don't know how some women do it as single parents...
I've already been through this with my sister who had 4 kids under 6yo and the husband had the house up for repossession and cleaned out all the kids' bank accounts as well as their joint account. It also cost her $60,000 in lawyers' and court fees!! She was ok though coz I was way ahead of that b@stard - this girl sounds like she's on her own.
Poor mcmzs5 seems to think her husband would worry about her taking up with another man. Where the hell would she ever be able to go to in order to meet one? Not only that, does she really think she's a great catch? All a new man knows is that she's not a virgin but few want an 'instant family' to support.
The OP has made her bed and is just going to have to lie in it for the next 10 years for the sake of these kids' welfare. She'll still be young enough in 10 years time if she wants another man.
Put your kids first regardless of your sexual pleasure with your husband.
Chill out girl and be glad the man is even on the scene!
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Great advice, Joybird. It really needed to be said.
The best answer isn't always the answer that sounds nice and reassuring and sometimes the best answer doesn't solve the problem but the best answer is THE best answer =/ I'd like to say divorce and go live a happy life, but the reality is, being married and not entirely happy sounds much better than being a single mum with four young children, even if the custody, child support and alimony hearings work out. Four children... good god I don't know how some women do it as single parents...
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I've already been through this with my sister who had 4 kids under 6yo and the husband had the house up for repossession and cleaned out all the kids' bank accounts as well as their joint account. It also cost her $60,000 in lawyers' and court fees!! She was ok though coz I was way ahead of that b@stard - this girl sounds like she's on her own.
Poor mcmzs5 seems to think her husband would worry about her taking up with another man. Where the hell would she ever be able to go to in order to meet one? Not only that, does she really think she's a great catch? All a new man knows is that she's not a virgin but few want an 'instant family' to support.
The OP has made her bed and is just going to have to lie in it for the next 10 years for the sake of these kids' welfare. She'll still be young enough in 10 years time if she wants another man.
Put your kids first regardless of your sexual pleasure with your husband.
Chill out girl and be glad the man is even on the scene!