He tells you not to be selfish? Woah. You're allowed to go on trips and see friends and join the military. It's your life, you do what you want to do with it. I'm saying this because you are not married to him. You don't have children with him so he should not be saying things like that about you being selfish when you only want to live what you desire. He is the selfish one.
You may love him and have been together for a year but the distance hurts. Him already controlling you like that and you're not even living together should be a big warning to you. Imagine how he would be if you lived together? I think you should end it, yes it will hurt but you can do whatever you want to do with your life without someone controlling it.
I think you need to end it correctly with him. Tell him why it's not going to work out (don't leave him in the dark about why you want to end the relationship) You go live your life, do the things you want to do with your friends as a career and hopefully you'll find someone along the way that will be great for you.
That first sentence is the same one that went off in my head when I read this. And the rest is a much better expressed version of my thoughts. My full agreement is with you and fishbowlover - very well said.
is it normal to want to end a long distance relationship?:(
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He tells you not to be selfish? Woah. You're allowed to go on trips and see friends and join the military. It's your life, you do what you want to do with it. I'm saying this because you are not married to him. You don't have children with him so he should not be saying things like that about you being selfish when you only want to live what you desire. He is the selfish one.
You may love him and have been together for a year but the distance hurts. Him already controlling you like that and you're not even living together should be a big warning to you. Imagine how he would be if you lived together? I think you should end it, yes it will hurt but you can do whatever you want to do with your life without someone controlling it.
I think you need to end it correctly with him. Tell him why it's not going to work out (don't leave him in the dark about why you want to end the relationship) You go live your life, do the things you want to do with your friends as a career and hopefully you'll find someone along the way that will be great for you.
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VERY well said
That first sentence is the same one that went off in my head when I read this. And the rest is a much better expressed version of my thoughts. My full agreement is with you and fishbowlover - very well said.