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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two months I was to do "stuff" with him but whenever i get the chance I usually just avoid it because i get to nervous.
How old are you? The first time you have sex you should be emotionally ready...if your not all excited about it and ready to tear his clothes right off then I suggest you wait. Sex is supposed to be FUN and pleasurable, not nerve wracking and scary! Just wait till your ready ;-)
Judging by your grammar and spelling, you shouldn't be '"doing stuff" with anyone.
I think we are passed normal sex, right? We are talking about anal, yeah? Well just relax, make sure he takes it real slow. As I have heard from faces in pillows for a long time, the first POP kills, but after that, it's all good!
You just need to calm down. Learn to trust yourself. You can do extra research on sex to feel more comfortable. That sex ed class in highschool probably wasn't too helpful.
You really need to be more specific about stuff. Are we talking sex? Anal? Oral? Face-slapping? Asphyxiation?
If it's safe, sane, and consensual, then it's OK and normal :)
It's normal to be nervous, I've been with my man for seven years and two kids together, and I still get shy and embarrassed even though we do it every night, I think it's healthy and normal to have these feelings, but it's about enjoying each other and exploration, the nervousness is all good,for me it heightens my senses, thus the heightened enjoyment, the hardest thing to do sometimes is allow yourself to let go, but from personal experience, it's always well worth it. :)